WHEN MY HUSBAND AND I ARE MAKING LOVE, MY HUSBAND ONLY PENETRATES ME THREE OR FOUR TIMES THEN HE HAS A FULL ORGASM. SOMETIMES HE IS JUST RUBBING AGAINST ME AND KISSING ME AND FONDLING ME AND HE HAS AN ORGASM IN HIS UNDERWEAR. MY HUSBAND IS ONLY 42, WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 15 YEARS AND HE HAS ALWAYS HAD THIS PROBLEM. IT JUST SEEMS IT IS GETTING QUICKER IF THAT IS POSSIBLE AND LESS ENJOYABLE FOR ME. IS THIS A MEDICAL ISSUE OR A PERSONAL CHOICE FOR HIM.
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well im 19 and i have the exact same problem, i keep orgasming after 4 or 5 strokes or just through fondling like you said. any people have any theories as to why?
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Okay, premature orgasm is typically caused by getting too excited, or even anxiety about having sex, which a lot, if not most guys have or have had a problem with. A lot of guys will get over this as they get more experience, and there are some techniques that can help some.
Masturbation itself can help to teach control. If you're having no problems lasting as long as you want while masturbating with your hand, but with a partner you last only seconds, you need to change things up a bit. First thing, lay off the grip of death when masturbating. It's called choking the chicken, but put a grip on the shaft more like you'd grip one of your testicles. Also, use lube. It doesn't have to be fancy, anything water based, vaseline, lotion, anything slippery that isn't dangerous to your health. This is going to feel more like what you'll experience for real, so you can learn some control. For even more "practice" get a masturbator like a FleshLight, since that will not only give you a somewhat similar feel as the real thing, but it also has the visual appeal. Work your way up, practice with it, this can really help.
It really depends on the guy but laying off masturbation for a few days before can help. Usually it's the other way around, having an orgasm a few minutes before sex can make the next one take longer to achieve. But there is the best thing to aim for, don't worry about cumming too fast, you can always do it again. Nothing says sex has to be over after you cum, just slow things down, do other things besides intercourse, use your hands, mouth, whatever on your partner and it won't take long before you're ready to go again, and this time you'll last longer.
Just practice safe sex, and if you orgasm, replace the condom with a new one before you do any penetration again. If this doesn't help or I haven't explained something well, let me know and I'll try to answer your questions.
Masturbation itself can help to teach control. If you're having no problems lasting as long as you want while masturbating with your hand, but with a partner you last only seconds, you need to change things up a bit. First thing, lay off the grip of death when masturbating. It's called choking the chicken, but put a grip on the shaft more like you'd grip one of your testicles. Also, use lube. It doesn't have to be fancy, anything water based, vaseline, lotion, anything slippery that isn't dangerous to your health. This is going to feel more like what you'll experience for real, so you can learn some control. For even more "practice" get a masturbator like a FleshLight, since that will not only give you a somewhat similar feel as the real thing, but it also has the visual appeal. Work your way up, practice with it, this can really help.
It really depends on the guy but laying off masturbation for a few days before can help. Usually it's the other way around, having an orgasm a few minutes before sex can make the next one take longer to achieve. But there is the best thing to aim for, don't worry about cumming too fast, you can always do it again. Nothing says sex has to be over after you cum, just slow things down, do other things besides intercourse, use your hands, mouth, whatever on your partner and it won't take long before you're ready to go again, and this time you'll last longer.
Just practice safe sex, and if you orgasm, replace the condom with a new one before you do any penetration again. If this doesn't help or I haven't explained something well, let me know and I'll try to answer your questions.
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Hi,
It has always been my position that a woman should have her orgasm first, because once I have mine my interest in sex is somewhat lacking for a short time.
My advice to you is to have him explore cunnilingus.
I have never met a woman who did not enjoy it.
I hope this helps.
Good luck
It has always been my position that a woman should have her orgasm first, because once I have mine my interest in sex is somewhat lacking for a short time.
My advice to you is to have him explore cunnilingus.
I have never met a woman who did not enjoy it.
I hope this helps.
Good luck
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