Me and my girlfriend have tried to have sex twice these past couple of days, but we are having problems. We are also both virgins.
First off, we have attempted to do this in the back of my car (Mercury Grand Marquis - mind you) which has a HUGE amount of back seat space, it's basically a couch. Yet, we still have problems getting in a position to put it in. Leg placement is tough; it's hard for my penis to fully be able to go in all the way. In fact, I haven't really gone much past the lips of the vagina. It hurts her quite much, and I go in really slow, but she's tense and kinda holds me back as I'm doing it.
Which brings me to a question. Is the main reason it's too difficult to put in because of her hymen? If so, what should I do? Keep in mind she hasn't really ever inserted anything into her vagina, not even tampons. So it's probably safe to say her cherry hasn't popped yet. It just hurts her a lot to even begin to insert it in. Need help please!
First off, we have attempted to do this in the back of my car (Mercury Grand Marquis - mind you) which has a HUGE amount of back seat space, it's basically a couch. Yet, we still have problems getting in a position to put it in. Leg placement is tough; it's hard for my penis to fully be able to go in all the way. In fact, I haven't really gone much past the lips of the vagina. It hurts her quite much, and I go in really slow, but she's tense and kinda holds me back as I'm doing it.
Which brings me to a question. Is the main reason it's too difficult to put in because of her hymen? If so, what should I do? Keep in mind she hasn't really ever inserted anything into her vagina, not even tampons. So it's probably safe to say her cherry hasn't popped yet. It just hurts her a lot to even begin to insert it in. Need help please!
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she's tight---nuff said...a virgin--self-explanatory...it takes time to break a hymen..u just dnt bust in there n enjoy..
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Wait until you are married? %-) I'm sorry, but it is up to the person whether they have sex or not. For all you know, The couple in question could be Atheists. Sex is a perfectly natural process. Humans are designed to ENJOY sex unlike most species of animal.
Now to the question at hand, It could very well be her hymen. It might be a good idea, if you break the hymen via fingering or inserting a small vibrator/dildo or such inside the vagina CAREFULLY. She will still be in alot of pain, esp when something bigger such as a penis is inserted.
Now to the question at hand, It could very well be her hymen. It might be a good idea, if you break the hymen via fingering or inserting a small vibrator/dildo or such inside the vagina CAREFULLY. She will still be in alot of pain, esp when something bigger such as a penis is inserted.
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This isn't a religion forum, its a health forum. I'll just leave it at that.
About trying to penetrate your girlfriend... the back seat of a car isn't ideal. In fact, it sucks. She needs to be able to relax her muscles and you need to be able to move slowly without risk of losing your balance or anything. Lube and foreplay also work wonders.
As usual, just make sure you're practicing safe sex.
Wait until you are married to have sex, as God instructs - you will be glad you did. I'm praying for you.
This isn't a religion forum, its a health forum. I'll just leave it at that.
About trying to penetrate your girlfriend... the back seat of a car isn't ideal. In fact, it sucks. She needs to be able to relax her muscles and you need to be able to move slowly without risk of losing your balance or anything. Lube and foreplay also work wonders.
As usual, just make sure you're practicing safe sex.
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Hey guys i was looking on conv me and my bf tried and i bleed i thought it was my period if i break my hymen would tht be good or bad and how do i exacly do it?
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hey i also have a question about that. now Ive never had sex before but my girl friend has. now we were on a very comfortable bed. i fingered her and ate her out and she got super wet.now for some reason when it was time for e to insert my penis, i couldn't. it was not getting erect. i tried playing with it but it just wouldn't get erect. what should i do?
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ok, i am definitely not an expert or somethin, but how about if she gives you head first? maybe that will help. or maybe u r just not ready...
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Since this is the first time for your girl, I would suggest get some place that is confortable(bed-would be my suggestion)and at least leave some sweet memories.
Sometimes the first penetration you can try some other position to make sure she is confortable first.
Start slow make sure she is all wet and if not use some lub. It's nice to have sex with virgins, communicate more and go slow first.
All the best.
Sometimes the first penetration you can try some other position to make sure she is confortable first.
Start slow make sure she is all wet and if not use some lub. It's nice to have sex with virgins, communicate more and go slow first.
All the best.
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shes not into that kind of thing, anyways would there be like any advise i could get?
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who cares if your married im not married and i have haad sex do it but in a hotel oh and girls u will love it
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Im sorry... i saw you had the same problem as i have right now. I really need help considering that you probably overcame the problem. i would appreciate if you told me how you solved your problem with erections right before sex. It is very important.
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It will be hard the first time because of her hymen and because she has never put anything in there before. It will be painful for her but you have to keep pushing. No pain, no game. You have to keep pushing because it will help break the hymen. True that you don't want to hurt her, but what else can you do to break the hymen- even if you use toy or your finger it will still be painful. If she get really wet then it will help a lot because it will help go in smoothly.
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My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time a few weeksago, and it was extremely painful for me, but I just told him to go in slowly, since a girls bpdy needs to get used to something that big going in there. If you respect her, then do what she says, go in slowly, and stop when she tells you to, that's what I did, and my boyfriend respected me. Now sex is absolutely fine, even though he still finds it tricky getting in, but that's because we were both virgins, so we're not used to it. Just keep trying
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