I'm 19 and have a boyfriend, but it's a long distance relationship. I'm also a virgin and am kinda sexually frustrated. But recently I've started watching lesbian porn (as well as straight and gay) and this got me questioning my sexuality. Even though I don't find any girls attractive or want to date/have sex with a girl, it seems to be constantly on my mind. I fantasize about having sex with my boyfriend all the time and I'm pretty much madly in love but just to put my mind at rest, I need advice. Or anything. Because I seem to be making a big deal out of something that could be nothing.
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Having something constantly on your mind doesn't necessarily mean anything - if you don't find girls attractive and don't feel like having sex with/dating them, you should "be okay".
Although it wouldn't necessarily mean anything either to get bi-curious when you're exposed to the idea.
I've only had sex with guys but lately I've often thought about doing it with a girl and I kinda wanna experiment it. The problem is, it's difficult to find a girl I'd wanna have sex with because I'm not attracted to girls.
As for the long distance relationship, do you even know the guy?
Depending on the situation of you guys, I'd advise you to end it and find a guy you like who lives near you. I've tried long distance and my ex and I did a thousand plans to be together and I was 'kinda sexually frustrated' for not being able to do anything with him (not in person anyway) and I thought I'd never find other person I'd like but overnight the whole thing went wrong and I met a new boyfriend almost instantly. 'Normal' relationships make long distance suck. I only tried long distance because it was my first relationship in the first place.
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Thank you for the reply, I've only just signed up to this website today and it's already making me feel better about things.
I've known my boyfriend for nearly two years, we've been best friends for those two years and finally decided to tell each other that we loved one another and I honestly think he's the one for me.
I hope everything goes well for you though! :-)
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Oh, good then!
Well, it also happened like that with me. But then I had to move to another continent. We continued together for a long time before we broke up and I still think if we met we'd just get together again, but things were never so simple and everything now is as good as before anyway.
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