Hey. So, I just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend 3 days ago. He got off two times before we finally decided to do it. I do remember him peeing and washing, but I can't remember if it was before or after we had sex. He inserted his penis inside me without a condom, and we made sure that he broke my hymen. But we had to try a couple of times to break it since I was in pain. I said something and he replied, "Don't worry, babe. But I just have to keep this guy up (ref. his penis)." I was kinda hoping that there was no pre-come present yet since he didn't seem to be extremely aroused or anything. But after breaking it, he thrusted a couple of times to make sure. When we were certain my hymen was broken, he pulled out and he wore a condom.
My questions are:
1. How do I know if the condom was broken when he put it on?
1. How do I know if the condom was broken when he put it on?
2. Can I get pregnant if he didn't put on a condom before breaking my hymen?
3. I'm irregular with my period, so I'm not entirely certain when it will come. So what do I do?
4. What are the safest birth control pills to use? Is it still possible to terminate any possible pregnancies if I take the pill 5 days after we had sex?
I have been reading and reading articles about these problems of mine, but I can't seem to find the right answers. And I can't just go to my Gynecologist since she's away for the month.
Help me please. Thanks!
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It takes courage to post a question like this, so thanks for doing so. Question 1, if he ejaculated into the condom when he was done and nothing was dripping out, then the condom did its job. Chances are he would have said something like "it broke" if something went wrong. Question 2, not to freak you out, but sometimes our hymens are already broken before we have sex for the first time, sometimes the pain we feel is called vaginismus and this is caused by our muscles being afraid of letting the penis and this is why it hurts and feels like he's unable to enter. That being said, even if your hymen was intact, there is always a SLIGHT risk if a penis enters without a condom because of the pre-cum, which still has some sperm. However, if he just peed before you had sex chances are good any sperm was cleared out with that. Question 3 & 4, you're period may come late just because you are stressing. My best suggestion is wait for a normal 28 cycle, that is from when you had your last period and get a pregnancy test. Now that it's been over 72 hours, Plan B is over its timeframe to work. Taking a birth control pill after you've had sex unfortunately isn't going to terminate a pregnancy. But I do suggest that you talk with your gyno once she's back to get put on a pill as you are now sexually active. She'll know what's best for you, every woman is different. I hope this helps!
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