I'm a 17 years old girl, going on 18.
I have a boyfriend, 23 years old.
we are maintaining a distant relationship, so our sex life is actually not more than mutual masturbation, online that is... with the webcam and mic.
currently he mentioned that we shouldn't be doing it that often since we do it at least 5 days a week. he mentioned that is hand is too hard on his penis, and that it damages his penis causing abrasion, and then he mentioned something about that clogging his skin pores ! ! i need to know if that's true.
another thing i'd like to know... he also said that ejaculating a lot has it's disadvantages on long-term basis and in the future and that it would affect pregnancy. i also need to know if thats true, though i researched it, and found no evidence what so ever.
a 3rd thing... he actually requested that i should satisfy him sexually without him ejaculating, he was like you should do whatever to stimulate me, and then i'd just leave a bit walk around the apartment to cool down... as stupid as that sounds to me, i'm as ignorant as a 13 year old about sex, so is there actually a way i could do that (sexually satisfying him without him ejaculating)?!
Thanks!
I have a boyfriend, 23 years old.
we are maintaining a distant relationship, so our sex life is actually not more than mutual masturbation, online that is... with the webcam and mic.
currently he mentioned that we shouldn't be doing it that often since we do it at least 5 days a week. he mentioned that is hand is too hard on his penis, and that it damages his penis causing abrasion, and then he mentioned something about that clogging his skin pores ! ! i need to know if that's true.
another thing i'd like to know... he also said that ejaculating a lot has it's disadvantages on long-term basis and in the future and that it would affect pregnancy. i also need to know if thats true, though i researched it, and found no evidence what so ever.
a 3rd thing... he actually requested that i should satisfy him sexually without him ejaculating, he was like you should do whatever to stimulate me, and then i'd just leave a bit walk around the apartment to cool down... as stupid as that sounds to me, i'm as ignorant as a 13 year old about sex, so is there actually a way i could do that (sexually satisfying him without him ejaculating)?!
Thanks!
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Hi there. Interesting questions...
First - it is VERY true that you can "damage" your penis from masturbating a lot. Try rubbing your arm for 1/2 hour to an hour a day every day and see what happens! That being said - it is pretty easily preventable just by using some lube when you masturbate. But - I think this is something every guy who masturbates dry has experienced many times in their life!
All the stuff about ejaculation - absolutely no truth to that! It is actually very healthy to have an orgasm and ejaculate. Now - technically - an orgasm and ejaculation are two separate thing...and in theory they can happen apart from each other. I have read through many sources that with a LOT of practice, men can actually have orgasms without an ejaculation, which will lead the ability to have multiple orgasms. I don't know ANYONE, nor have I heard of anyone personally who can actually achieve this though - so the chances of him being able to do it are really not very good! Especially at his age.
I hope that answers your questions. I think you should have a talk with him...maybe there is something else going on!
First - it is VERY true that you can "damage" your penis from masturbating a lot. Try rubbing your arm for 1/2 hour to an hour a day every day and see what happens! That being said - it is pretty easily preventable just by using some lube when you masturbate. But - I think this is something every guy who masturbates dry has experienced many times in their life!
All the stuff about ejaculation - absolutely no truth to that! It is actually very healthy to have an orgasm and ejaculate. Now - technically - an orgasm and ejaculation are two separate thing...and in theory they can happen apart from each other. I have read through many sources that with a LOT of practice, men can actually have orgasms without an ejaculation, which will lead the ability to have multiple orgasms. I don't know ANYONE, nor have I heard of anyone personally who can actually achieve this though - so the chances of him being able to do it are really not very good! Especially at his age.
I hope that answers your questions. I think you should have a talk with him...maybe there is something else going on!
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I just started having orgasms without ejaculation and I thought it was weird or not normal. I do get tons of practice I should add. I've been masturbating a lot since I was young. 16 years now and I recently wanted to control when I cum. So I read some advice online about slowing it down and taking a very long time getting off. I do get off now with no cum. It's crazy and I didn't know it was possible. Thanks for the information and article!
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