Hi,
I am 31 year old single mother. I have a 6 year old daughter and thought I was being really careful. I have been dating a guy for less than 6 months and our first sexual experience I found out I was pregnant. I am financially getting by and have my own place also career. But this guy I am seeing is not a stable relationship. He has a child of his own as well and says financially he can't take care of it. I hate to raise another child as a single mother. I have set an appointment to terminate the pregnancy. But I am really hating this decision. But a part of me thinks it's best. But I am only 8 weeks and I have already gained some attachment. I don't want to share this with my friends or family. They would be so judgmental. What should I do?
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Nicole;
I think for me to tell you to keep or to abort would be wrong, as ultimately, the decision is yours. As a single mother of a six year old who is financially getting by, I applaud you. There is a lot to consider about this decision, such as the financial impact of another child and the impact that will have on your current child as a working single mom. The relationship that you are currently in is also a big factor, and if you two aren't at the stage where you think that keeping this child is the best decision, perhaps allowing more time for the relationship to grow before having another child is best. I hope this helped, and I hope you'll let me know what you end up doing. I'm here for support!
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