I've already pretty much come to the conclusion i have Phimosis, not too uncommon in uncircumsized men 1 in 3 i think.
I myself can get the skin all the way past the head when flacid, and i am currently rubbing a steroid cream my doctor perscribed on it twice daily to reverse this. However dureing an erection i still can't get the skin over the head no matter how hard i try. This wouldn't be a problem normally, However i've discovered with my current girlfriend dureing and after intercourse the skin managed to pull itself all the way over my errect head. (She is admitingly a tad tighter then i've had before) Once this happends it gets sore and in fact i will begin to lose my errection. In fear i will pull out, remove the condom and roll with some force the foreskin over the head once again. After pleaseing her other ways i tend to turn back to myself only to find it really hard to obtain an errection again, and more specifically once i get home i find my member to be swollen and sore.
I've ruled out circumcision as an answer, but is their anything i can do to keep pleaseing my girl without causing this horrible situation.
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there isn't much you can do apart from using a steroid cream or having a circumcision. I decided on the latter but even then, I fond that some of the phimosis persisted on the remaining tissues so I still have to add (occasionally) a little steroidal cream to keep things under control.
By the way, being circumcised is not that bad. It reduces the sensation but it's still a very pleasurable experience having sex and the added advantage is that (definitely in my case) my partner orgasms around the same time as I do now. Something that was not possible before, as I tended to cum much sooner than her. The other thing worth noting is that contrary to what people might say, the operation was completely painless. The only discomfort was not being able to have any sexual activity for about 2 weeks after the op while the stitches were still in. But it was all worth it in the end although had it not been for the phimosis in the first place, I wouldn't have wanted to be circumcised anyway. By the way, it's quite easy to masturbate if circumcised, you don't need any lubricant or anything, it's easy to adapt your technique!
Worth thinking about in your situation though.
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Hi Adam88:
It sounds like you would like to keep your foreskin forward over the head when you have sex.
The steroid cream is going to make your foerskin looser so it will more easily glide back.
That may not be what you want.
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