super sensitive glans after adult circumcision

How long before you guys had sex. after day 17 all of my stitches are out and my gf performed masturbation on me. It is now different and I have to use lube. I feel like im ready for sex but im kinda scared. I am 22. Please some responses.

Help guys i am 13 and had a curcumsizion yesterday and it really really hurts i have by been given some other bandages to put on and evrything i do results in massive amounts of pain if i pee it hurts if i walk it hurts even if i stay sat down it hurts plz need help the reason i got circed is because the forskin would not pull round the back of the head of the penis so i had to have it removed and tbh i really wish i had had it done as a baby beacause when i get erections the pain is exruciating:(

Ouch!!!! I can sympathize with you, that must really hurt when you get an erection. It hurts like that because you are stretching the cut skin where it's trying to heal back together. If they didn't give you any pain meds for that, all you can do is try to avoid getting an erection.

All I can suggest is to wear some very loose clothing to try to minimize it rubbing against anything. How about a bath robe with nothing on underneath?

I expect your glans is also very sensitive and it hurts when it contacts your clothes. Having it rub against your clothing probably also causes an erection which is counter productive to trying to NOT get erections.

I still have my foreskin so I have no experience with what they leave you with, but I have read accounts by others saying they were bandaged so that the bare glans didn't rub on anything and they kept the bandage until the cut was healed. Then they had to live with the sensitive glans until it became desensitized.

My gosh, removing it because it won't retract when you're only 13 seems like a rather harsh way to treat you. It's not at all uncommon for the foreskin to not retract too well at 13. Didn't they discuss any other choices with you?

 

Please tell me that you're still checking this!

Had circumcision performed three days ago - in a previously exact same situation to you - and glands are agony; they make me want to double-over and cry when it touches clothing!

Please tell me it gets better!!!

You can be assured that it gets better. There are a lot of other guys who are circumcised and they aren't walking around in permanent pain.

Actually many of us who are not circumcised have taken steps to desensitize ours for the pleasure of not being so absurdly sensitive. The only way to do that is to force it to withstand being touched ---- a lot!!!! Gee that's exactly what is happening to you right now. I can rub my glans with my fingers now and I do when I masturbate because it feels so good. So you have something to look forward to as it gets less sensitive. It's really enjoyable to dry rub the bare glans after it becomes less sensitive. After the sensitivity decreases, the rubbing against your clothing will probably cause you to walk around with a permanent hard on for a while.

How old are you and did they discuss any choices about the style of circumcision with you?

I had mine done 4 days ago and agree entirely, ive been for a walk with a lot of nervousness and feeling faint every time the glans touches anything.
Its good to know im not the only one walking around with my hand down my pants!!!!.
I hope that much like a burn the Virgin skin will toughen and become touchable.
Let me know if any thing works for you!!!
by the way ive been undercover for 35 years so I know your suffering mate!.

Well I'm surprise to find this post and this site.

 

Was looking to see if anyone else has this problem. I'm actually 2 months+ post surgery. I had my follow up with my surgeon a week ago. He said everything is heal and that I can have sex.

However what he says isn't exactly what I'm feeling. I still have a bit of sensitivity in the glands when pressure. My glands are still a bit purple and blue from the bruising although that has died down quite a bit. But the sensitivity is still there if a lot of pressure is put into it. So I'm not sure how sex would work.

My surgeon said there will always be a small bit of discomfort due to the gland being expose now and most of that is due to the frenulum under the glands. I brought that discomfort up to the surgeon and he says its normal and is expected for the rest of my life since the frenulum is the most sensitive part of the penis. I have to admit if I place a finger on the  frenulum and place pressure it does hurt and I can feel the pressure of it. While I'm able to get a full erection now without pain the sensitive on the gland is still there although not bad but the pain in the frenulum discomfort is a major concern.

Even though my surgeon said I'm fully heal with no scars and can have sex. I just don't know....

I definitely feel that the sensitivity from the glands is mostly from the areas that is purple still. Its like a bruise where if you put pressure on it, it helps but if you leave it alone than it doesn't hurt. So I have a feeling that it will be much better once my penis has no purple area on it. My concern is that at 2+ months, the purple bruising should all do away by now. Im not sure if I'm just a slow healer or not.

I don't know what to think on the frenulum discomfort. its not sensitive like the glands area just a bit stingy is a lot of pressure is apply to it. Like wearing tight underwear.

 

Anyone else has this kind of problem?

What's with that surgeon? Is his name Mengele?eh

He must have known about what you are experiencing before doing the circ and in my opinion he should have discussed it with you ahead of the operation. I feel the frenulum should have been removed while doing the circ so you would not be having this problem now. He certainly should have given you the choice. There should not be a lifetime of pain or discomfort coming to you. Your glans should be just fine in a while. I am not circed but I did desensitize my glans and it does NOT hurt to touch it or squeeze it. Actually it feels very nice to touch/rub/squeeze it.

If you have the remnants of a frenulum you can have it removed and you should not have any residual pain to live with for life. I think I would find a different surgen to do that and make sure he knows what you want for results. My frenulum went away naturally by being torn while I was having sex. There is no pain or sensitivity there even when I pull my foreskin back very tight, which I do often while masturbating because it feels so good to stretch the inner foreskin.

I don't see why you should have the bruises you describe. He shouldn't have done anything to your glans to bruise it. However people react differently to surgery so I wouldn't worry about that. When I had my vasectomy my whole scrotum ended up bruised and looking like a black and blue softball. Geez, all it got was two little slits in it.

When I was a kid between 10 and 15 years old a bunch of us used to get together to masturbate. About half the guys were circed and their glans were not sensitive at all. Some of them liked to have it squeezed pretty tight while rubbing the shaft and glans, so you surely don't have to look forward to it being painful to touch forever.

Did he discuss the different styles of circumcisions with you before doing it?

If you have a regular sex partner she should be understanding so you can try it out without hurting yourself. Use plenty of lube if she doesn't get wet enough naturally. I think you will find it feels pretty good.

Hi.

My Urologist (surgeon) discuss my options in terms of solving my tight foreskin problem. Circumsize or slit where its not really circumsize.

We both agreed that circumsize would look more natural than a slit and I think the ladies would be more familiar with a circumsize penis than a penis that has a slit on the foreskin.

He mention to me about the recovery phases and stuff like that. He even mention the expected time for recovery and sex.

But post surgery the one thing I found out on was the its normal to have bruises on the glands as part of the recovery as the foreskin being cut away. I guess it depends on the person and how they recover from it. So I'm not concern on the bruising. Just more concern on how long its taken to fully heal. Most of my sensitivity right now comes from the areas on the blands that still black and blue. Its more of an annoyance. I can work and run and excercise and stuff. Sometimes I feel nothing while other times I might get a sensitive sensation when my glands brush against my boxers. Its an off and on thing and I think it will go away from by gland don't have any black and purple bruise on it. I'm just more concern its been 2 months and not fully heal yet in that regards to the bruise.

As for the frenulum thats the big disappointment that I wasn't aware of until after surgery. Since I always had a foreskin on it was never a problem and I didnt even know anything about the frenulum. Only until after surgery and now that I started to notice a bit of a stinging problem that comes and go at times and its located at the frenulum. Its not sensitive, it just stings causing a bit of discomfort now and then depending on if I'm wearing underwear or boxer. If you apply pressure to it then it stings.

I did do some research on my own and finally found out that it appears that taking out the frenulum seem to be an optional thing in circumsize procedures. Some people have theirs taken out while some don't. I guess my surgeon decided not to remove it and kept it there.

My problem on this is trying to figure out what to do at 2 months rate. Give it more time to see how the frenulum work out or not. My surgeon did re-examine me saying I'm fully heal and ready for sex and that since this is all new to me, I'm not use to having a penise without a foreskin before. And he's right on that account since others have a lifetime getting used to a circumsize penis while I only have 2 months.

I'm just a bit scared still in trying to masturbate or having sex because of the sensitivity and stinging frenulum.

I think you're doing fine but you spend too much time worrying. The stinging should go away in time and touching it a lot will help. A lot of touching is the only way to get rid of the sensitivity and masturbating is a great way to do that. That's how I desensitized my glans. I held my foreskin back and forced little willey to get used to being rubbed to a happy ending before I allowed him to go back inside.

Hi,

You mention that you tore your frenulum during sex. I've actually read about that happening while I was researching for frenulum a few days ago. That actually kind of scare me. Did you have to go to emergency or something like that? I seem very painful and scary.

No problem it heals up quickly all by itself. I did put something on it though to keep the ends from going back together so it would not be as short. I think I might have just put some toilet paper in the split and rolled the foreskin back over it. That was about 40 years ago.

Hey... So, my name's Jasper. I'm 19. (I got circumcised when I was 18.)

Hey buddy I have exactly the same problem. I did my 2 weeks ago. Since u post this last year you mast be healed by now so can u tell me how all this work for you because I’m fricking out.

Hi, Im 19 and had my circumsicion 2 weeks ago.
Erection, works fine firts couple of days it kinda hurt but it went away .