penis glans super sensitive after dorsal slit, swelling, smegma

You must be the luckiest guy in the world. You went to the gallows and the rope broke. You still have the most pleasureful part of your penis for having sex  ------  Your inner foreskin.

You do realize that you would still have the sensitivity problem if it had completely removed?

Now, most circed guys are not sensitive because it has been forced to rub on everything forever ---- without a break.

All those things you are doing are just making it worse or take longer to become desensitized. What you need to do is clean it off really well, pull your foreskin all the way back, and start touching it.

You are not subject to infections or germs because you still have most of your foreskin, that's internet BS.

Were you washing off the smegma before you got the slit? If your frenulum is a problem later you can have it removed.

Here's what I did.

I knew the guys who were circumcised had no problem having theirs touched. When I was young several of us used to get together to masturbate and of course we tried doing each other. I was super surprised when I found the kid who was circed wanted me to rub his bare head.

I figured his was not sensitive because it had been uncovered all his life so it was used to being touched from rubbing on his underwear and him touching it. So all I should need to do was force mine to get used to that too.

Of course when I pulled back my foreskin it was damp and sticky. That made touching it even more painful so I figured I needed to clean it well and dry it off. I tried washing with soap and water but it was still just not quite dry enough. Next I tried cleaning it with rubbing alcohol using a cotton ball soaked in it. That is what really worked well. It feels cold at first followed by a warm tingly feeling. After it dries the skin is so dry and smooth you can slide your fingers smoothly over it without them sticking at all. That allowed me to touch it all over as gently as I needed, to begin getting it used to being touched.

It is still sensitive but you just have to keep doing it as much as you can stand and eventually it will get so you can touch it just like touching any other part of your body. It does take time, like weeks or months depending on how much you do it. After all the kid who was circed has had his rubbing on everything for years, without a break. It also depends on how your glans responds. We're not all the same.

The more I touched it the more I wanted to. Touching and rubbing it became very pleasureful and I always ended up masturbating. That gave me a reason to want to do it more often. Since I desensitized it I have never used any lube while masturbating because it feels sooooo good to hold my foreskin back as tight as I can and dry rub the whole thing. I don't slide the foreskin up and down either.

So soak the cotton ball with rubbing alcohol and then like gently wipe the glans with it? then once it dries then use my fingers to rub it?

You got it. You can touch as lightly as you want and as much as you want. If it's too much, see if you can find some soft flannel or something like that to rub it with to start. Then work up to using your fingers.

njoynlife wrote:

Don't rub it with the alcohol, use it to clean it so there is no oily stuff left on it and let it dry. Then you can slide your fingers over it without them sticking to it. They will slide over it smoothly which is just right to lessen the pain of touching it.

So soak the cotton ball with rubbing alcohol and then like gently wipe the glans with it? then once it dries then use my fingers to rub it?

and guest, no, I havent, but I do get a couple of erections now and again.

njoynlife wrote:

So soak the cotton ball with rubbing alcohol and then like gently wipe the glans with it? then once it dries then use my fingers to rub it?

You got it. You can touch as lightly as you want and as much as you want. If it's too much, see if you can find some soft flannel or something like that to rub it with to start. Then work up to using your fingers.

You think I could use that ear thing to clean your ears with instead of my fingers? I'm afraid I'll put too much pressure with my fingers and itll hurt haha.

Guest - alright, its gonna kill me haha but i'll try my best