Telling my mom I'm gay

I will make you a deal ... if you tell your mom.. ill tell my mom... if you Have a hard time telling her Wright her a note or text it to her.. or go out some where call.her and tell her then wait a while before going home... it is completely normal to fell this way... you are you no matter what... :)

I don't want to seem judgemental. But I do want to try and help you out here. I'm straight, I'm 15. I do like girls, and yes I'm pretty sure most guys have at once fantisized about 'the other side'. I don't want to tell you what to do here but what is it? Peer pressure pushing you into it? Are you having trouble finding a girlfriend? Or is it honestly how you feel? Because the first two don't matter. I obviously have no personal experience in this matter, but I would recommend you try to snap out of it. Try to break past the fact that you think you may be gay. Inside you know it's wrong, yet you still go that way. Just give it some thought. And also, my mother and I haven't always gotten along either, I know how difficult it can be and on top of all that, saying to her that you're gay would be tough. Now, being gay isn't normal. It's common, but really isn't nesecarry. You can get past it. If worst comes to worst, simply like SieCha said, try to text or leave letters. Or maybe even gradually give her hints. Show her monthly, maybe even yearly at your own pace that you like men instead of women. Deep down no matter how much you and your mother don't get along. She will always love you for who you are. You're her son and that cannot be changed. She'll love you no matter who you are. I hope this was helpful.

+1 to my "abusive parents cause mental illness" theory

i like what you said... but i dont agree with every thing.... 1 it is completly normal to feel this way.. (no one can change who you are)...
2 i also agree that maybe if you uabe jot been with the same sex before them you might.not be sure....

i like girls and guys.. and i feel the same way.. i have been with both.. and have tild me mom i was just 'experimenting' ... and i find that guys and girls offer the same things and that i like them both... it is his desition.. like i said.... YOU ARE YOU NO.MATTER WHAT..!

I don't want to shoot down what you said or anything but i really have had no sexual interest in women (except for grade 6-7 when I thought I HAD to have sexual interest in women, so I made myself try to like women, which didn't work) But I have always just liked guys a lot more so I'm pretty sure it's not just a stage but that I am gay and I was born gay.

Being gay can be a very touchy subject in some families i like the advice of the others by the note or text. If you can try to talk to her in person, tell how you cant help it and your still the person u always were and tje only difference is you like the same sex. Tell her that both of you will kniw its true!! Rember you are who you are strait or gay you are a human being that deserves Respect no matter what. No matter what deep down inside your mother will ALWAYS love you. You are her child.