I have been struggling with this for awhile now. I've tried everything from stop and go, squeezing, delay sprays, to pc muscle excersises, nothing is working.
When I masturbate there is a time period I start an in about 50 secs I feel the urge to ejaculate then I stop and as I go back I'll still be at that point or a couple secs away from it. It's just pissing me off cause I've tried in a girl and didn't last long. when I ejaculate too early I get frustruated and this just leads me to no cure.
Can someone help me out, like how you cured it and maybe some pointers or advice. I really don't want to go to the doctor for this because, I'm only 18. I really want to be over with this.
When I masturbate there is a time period I start an in about 50 secs I feel the urge to ejaculate then I stop and as I go back I'll still be at that point or a couple secs away from it. It's just pissing me off cause I've tried in a girl and didn't last long. when I ejaculate too early I get frustruated and this just leads me to no cure.
Can someone help me out, like how you cured it and maybe some pointers or advice. I really don't want to go to the doctor for this because, I'm only 18. I really want to be over with this.
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First of all, you say you are only 18, and you want this to be over with. Now.
At age 18, you're in your prime, where your sexual organs are in their prime, and just about anything and everything is sexually stimulating.
The goal of masturbation is usually to come as fast as possible by the most direct means possible. This means you have trained your body to go immediately for this release and response.
You need to unlearn this behavior and goal.
You are correct to try the stop and start, the squeeze, and other things like pc muscle exercises. I can't recommend delay sprays, cause you can't use them with intercourse without numbing the woman. And the squeeze technique never did anything for me.
There is a great video program called "You Can Last Longer" by the Sinclair Sexual Institute. It is designed for adults a little older than you are, but the 40 minute program is available on DVD and VHS over the internet and at many adult bookstore, sex shops, toy stores, etc.
The program can be practiced either with a female partner, or solo, if you follow the steps and are ready for a long term treatment. There is no magic cure that will fix this immediately. There will be some success and some slip ups. Its' important that you not get frustrated and not rush through the steps.
Frankly, I think it's too early for you to be worried about this, but you can seek out this video program and try it if you want to. At age 18, you're an adult in most states and can legally buy or rent this tape to view.
Good luck.
At age 18, you're in your prime, where your sexual organs are in their prime, and just about anything and everything is sexually stimulating.
The goal of masturbation is usually to come as fast as possible by the most direct means possible. This means you have trained your body to go immediately for this release and response.
You need to unlearn this behavior and goal.
You are correct to try the stop and start, the squeeze, and other things like pc muscle exercises. I can't recommend delay sprays, cause you can't use them with intercourse without numbing the woman. And the squeeze technique never did anything for me.
There is a great video program called "You Can Last Longer" by the Sinclair Sexual Institute. It is designed for adults a little older than you are, but the 40 minute program is available on DVD and VHS over the internet and at many adult bookstore, sex shops, toy stores, etc.
The program can be practiced either with a female partner, or solo, if you follow the steps and are ready for a long term treatment. There is no magic cure that will fix this immediately. There will be some success and some slip ups. Its' important that you not get frustrated and not rush through the steps.
Frankly, I think it's too early for you to be worried about this, but you can seek out this video program and try it if you want to. At age 18, you're an adult in most states and can legally buy or rent this tape to view.
Good luck.
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