Hey everyone. now me and my boyfrieare tryed to have sex ther other day. Ok,but the odd part is that I can't open up all,and he can't stay upright,if you know what I mean,for long.....please help us.
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Not really sure what your meaning by the first half of your sentence but as far as the not being about to keep his penis erect here are a few ideas.
If you freak out about him losing his erection it will make the problem worse. You need to be very accepting and not make fun of him in any way. If he is under a lot of stress from work, family issues, performance anixety etc it will cause him to lose his erection. If he is really tired it will be harder to keep it up. If he has any blood flow issues he may need a medication to help get him hard and to stay hard. If he is over weight and/or has diabetes is another reason.
I would talk to him about it and let him make the decision to see the doctor about it. Dont force him into going because it will not help him with his self esteem. When and if he is able to keep it hard make sure you tell him how amazing it was and stoke his ego about it because he will be down about this issue.
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he is probably having performance anxiety i have it not having sex but no one person can say they like being under pressure so like heather88 said be accepting dont tease be nice
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