I've been dating an over 40 year old guy for over 2 months, he keeps telling me that he "cums soft". I have no clue what that means. He says I'm sexy and amazing in bed, everything I do is what he loves and wants, he does get hard but when he releases he gets soft. Which I think is normal but he thinks it's not. He believes he still is hard till the end of releasing. All that matters to me is that he came but because of his huge ego he wants to "cum like a champ". He's had many sexual encounters and says I'm the first he's ever felt like this.
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What does he mean you're "the first he's ever felt like this"? Does he mean he always stays hard with others?
I think there is a big difference between individuals. I know some guys claim they can go on forever but even when I was young I could hardly ever keep it up after the orgasm. Depending on how turned on I was it might stay hard for a minute or so but usually it was limp by the time I got it out. I guess you could say it backed out by itself.
If he's trying to make you feel bad because you're not making him turned on enough to stay hard, why do care?
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