How much I have looked around and seen all these younger mom's with new babies, sure I am only 31, but my oldest is 15yr, yes I started at 16, and my youngest is almost 12. I have had "Empty Arm Syndrome" for about a yr now. See here is where my issue lies....I had my tubes tied in 2001, I am now almost 2wks late, do I not want to admit....I don't know...but also, I have take the home pregnancy test and they come out negative. All other say I need to get my blood drawn...I would love to have another...that would be wonderful..my menstrual cycle always on time after my last daughter, the last 2 cycles, I have been natious and they have been barely there. My mother is telling me that I am going thru the change....Eh hmmm, not at 31! Any advice?