I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. Our sex life is usually a hit or miss when it comes to my pleasure and I'm okay with that because we're still learning each others bodies and the life of a college student with a house, job and dogs, there hasn't been a lot of exploring to begin with. However, when I'm alone and decide to masturbate my libido goes crazy. I can't stop masturbating for at least a couple of hours or so. Is this because there isn't a lot of intimacy (or finishing for that matter) going on? I'm scared this is abnormal.
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Hello Anon
If after a year and a half, you are still learning each others bodies, good on you. You should always be doing this, as our bodies change all the time. I am in an 11 year relationship, and we are still exploring and learning.
And I also think after a year and a half, you should be able to talk freely to your partner. Speak to him, and tell him how you feel. Clearly your libidos are very different and he needs to be made aware of this. This may mean he needs to do something to increase his, or you both need to do something to satisfy yours.
But again, talking is key.
Anon you and your relationship is anything but abnormal, and yet it is so unique to you two.
Talk and play, talk and play some more.
Good luck, and feel free to PM me if you feel like you need to.
Alex900
If after a year and a half, you are still learning each others bodies, good on you. You should always be doing this, as our bodies change all the time. I am in an 11 year relationship, and we are still exploring and learning.
And I also think after a year and a half, you should be able to talk freely to your partner. Speak to him, and tell him how you feel. Clearly your libidos are very different and he needs to be made aware of this. This may mean he needs to do something to increase his, or you both need to do something to satisfy yours.
But again, talking is key.
Anon you and your relationship is anything but abnormal, and yet it is so unique to you two.
Talk and play, talk and play some more.
Good luck, and feel free to PM me if you feel like you need to.
Alex900
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