I've had sex before but every time I have it after a week or so it hurts really bad. I know sometimes people hurt after not having it for awhile but this is sometimes just after a few days. I examined myself and it kind of looks like i have some extra skin in there and I'm not sure if that is what my problem is or not. Is it possible to have extra flesh right in the beginning of the vagina (not including the hymen)? I am no virgin so it's not like it's still part of my hymen.