when i was born, my vaginal opening was closed up completley and was taken to the doctors from when i was 2-3 and They applied creams to open it up, im now 16 and i have periods and get wet, i wanted to know that because i dont have a hymen will sex not hurt the first time? is it due to the hymen that sex hurts? and could it be possible that my hole is too small?
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Hi! I just wanted to let you know that sex doesn't really hurt that much. I'm sure you probably still get check ups at the doctor due to your history. People make sex out to feel really painful. I mean, its not like you won't feel it, but it's not like anywhere near extreme or ever mild pain, it's verry slight slight pain. And yes, even though you don't have a hymen, you will experience sex the same way every other girl does. When the hymen is intact, and is usually broken by a man during the first sexual contact, it bleeds, for the one and only time. And after it's broken, you don't bleed. But, just because you don't have a hymen, and won't bleed doesn't mean guys will think your not a virgin. I didn't bleed the first time I had sex, as a matter of fact I never bled from sex. A percentage of woman don't, which I am a part of. And no, sex doesn't hurt because of the hymen. Sex hurts verry little like I said because of the physical contact of a man inside you, but all woman are born to stretch open for sex, and you could never be to small for sex considering we bear children..ugh..lol, so don't worry...
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