very extremely scared

me and my bf have had sex a couple times with a condom the one time i went to his house we didnt have one he stick it in but didnt move because we were to afraid i would get pregnant and so he pulled out nd we continued our day he didnt cum or anything inside me and it was only like 20 seconds before that it tool a while for my period to come (i have periods that are uneven) then after that we freake out cu my period still hasnt come i took online tests then say no i have read other comments some say yes some say no and we r veru scared i told my mom and she will put me on birth control in two weeks when we did that it was 9/27/13 and i do not remember my last period it has been a long time and some symptoms: frequent urination and odd sensations in tha abdoman! and everyday i wake up with my stomch hurting and feeling like there is air i try to burb or anything to let the air out but it still there and that scares me! oh and it was my fourth time having sex with him

If I understand correctly, you have already talked to your mom and she has set you up with a doctor's appointment? If you are this scared the best thing you can do, is pick up an at home pregnancy test or if you are near clinic, go there for one. It will give you some piece of mind. Otherwise just try to hang on until your appointment. Pregnancy test are routine when beginning birth control.

In the event that you are pregnant, there are options. Keep open communication between you and your mom. She will be upset and angry, but she is your mom and I am sure she loves you. Just try to keep calm and learn from this. If you aren't pregnant count your blessings and stop messing around. You have your whole life ahead of you, no sex is worth risking your happiness for. If your bf loves you, he'll understand.

Best luck sweetie. I really hope everything works out.