My boyfriend are about to get engaged but are just waiting for the money to (because it's true college students are broke) but have run into a problem. We have been sexually active for about 5-6 months now and not once have I been able to cum to him. At all. No matter what we do. We have tried oral stimulation, fingers, different lubricants and many different penetration positions but nothing seems to work. He is completely against using any form of vibrator or toy because HE wants to be the only thing that pleases me but it's just not working. I've even had to fake a couple of orgasms just to attempt to boost his self esteem so he will continue the seemingly unending trek to try and please me. I feel horrible for his sake becasue I see how it effects him but I'm also being affected! I mean come on I can't orgasm! I get turned on and of course what he does feels good but it doesn't get me NEAR "the edge" so then the rest of the day I'm just turned on and uncomfortable. I just don't know what else to do now, I've read just about everything I can get my hands on from biology books to trashy novels to cosmo magazine to online posts in order to obtain ideas and/or understanding but no matter what I try nothing is working. Can anyone help me? Please... Am I the only one like this?
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