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Hello, I completely understand you. I'm 25 and I have cum couple of times. I'm seeing absolutely amazing guy who means a lot to me. We are having amazing sex and I would never change anything about him as he turns me on every time . I don't know what is wrong but I can't cum. He please me in every way I love having sex with him, but I know it's a problem for him that I don't cum and he feels like he is not good enough , but the truth is he amazing in the bed . We argue a lot about this but I just don't have an answer for this and I feel sh*t . I'm considering to go to see the doctor and maybe they can help me or tell me what's wrong with me as I think it's nothing good . I don't want to loose my partner but I feel like I will so I have to do something.
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When you say you can't cum do you mean you can't orgasm?
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Omg thank you, that person is an as****e.
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I need help

i can't cum and it feels like its coming out but its not. I'm always wet
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THANK YOU SO MUCH I'VE BEEN STRUGGLING FOR SO LONG BECAUSE I NEVER BELIEVED I ACTUALLY HAD THE ABILITY TO FEEL PLEASURE THANK YOU

And now here's a thing:

My best advice to anyone is to not beat anti-sexuality into their kid's head. I was raised Christian, and my dad was abusive, and I was terrified of being sexual in any way for fear of Hell and fear of my dad. I was mentally scarred by this. I believed - no, I convinced myself - that I was asexual, and that my libido did not exist.

Don't do this to your kids!! Please, I'm begging you!

Instead teach them everything you know, and what to look for, and how to be cautious of diseases and all the different ways to love a person. Teach them everything. Tell them it's okay. Otherwise they're never going to experience literally the only good physical part of being human. And especially teach your ladies! They don't have a toy down there. They have a dark, creepy cave that hurts and secretes blood because they didn't have a baby, the exact thing their parents tell them not to do. So tell them it's okay to feel around. Give them baby wipes or something lol just let them get to know themselves, and let them know it's okay. Because I needed this, I really did, and since I was never reassured that these things are okay when I was an impressionable child who just learned where babies came from, I'm only just now experiencing true physical pleasure. And I'm 22.

So please, please, don't be an as****e parent. Protect your kids, but remember that knowledge is power, and while ignorance can be bliss, it's not going to help your child when literally everyone around her has an intimate secret she'll never be able to understand.


Thank you Mr. D. You're a life saver
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Don't get your sex advice from your 18 year old boyfriend who probably knows less about sex than you do.
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bless you sir
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lol ok as****e take a seat god damn
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i am 17 years old girl, i've had sex wd my bf till 7-8 months and number of times, but he never made me cum, he tried anal,and vagina but he couldn't.... I need help aswell, i just dont show much interest in sex tht's it, but is it normal? i m guessing if i ever gonna have child or not, i guess i dont have orgasm.
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Hi guest, not every female can have a orgasm during intercourse so there is nothing different about you there really, are you able to achieve orgasm through self masturbation or foreplay and oral sex? It isn't unusual to not get an orgasm during anal sex alone with out having some other for of stimulation like him or you rubbing your clit also, it could just be that your boyfriend hasn't found the right combination of buttons to press yet to get you turned on enough to have a orgasm or do you find having sex is just a bit of a choir and something you just do to make him happy? Having a lower sex drive than there partner isn't uncommon for both male and female but more likely to affect females more though. Why are you guessing that about having a child or not?

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why cant I cum
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are you male or female
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I'm in the same boat as well. 18. Have tried a few sexual partners before my current relationship. The sex with him is amazing but I cannot for the life of me cum. I don't get pleasure out of touching myself either. Only when having sex with him.
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Do you mean you can't reach orgasm?
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My parents were the ones that told me it was a sin when they found my vibrator..
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