What's WRONG WITH ME, I JUST CAN'T CUM

you're not supsposd to know how to orgasm it just comes. the highest point of whatever sexual activity you're performing , you don't force a orgasm . that's pretty much how people are going to take that . and just because you can't please yourself durning masturbation, doesn't mean anything . some women find it gross to touch your own self like that, in my opinion it is much more pleasing to have somebdoy else do it . I find it more pleasing instead of having to have a tired arm while trying to make yourself feel pleasured when you can have somebdoy else there to just do it all for you .

And yes I understand the fact that some guys just don't know what they are doing , but that's something you can talk to them about . tell them what pleases you the most, teach them along with what you like .

Watch porn with her, ask her her deepest fantasy's while your sucking on her clit and fingering her, get her to play with herself in front of you, and use coconut oil. Enjoy

I've read that it is much easier for girls to orgasm through oral sex than intercourse, so if you have difficulty having an orgasm how about watching some porn with your bf to get warmed up, then letting him do some sexy things like giving you a massage, sucking your boobs, licking your bum and stuff like that, and then when you're revved up enough let him lick your clit. That should do it, it certainly works for me!

I am 25 and been with my partner for 7 years and in have always gotten to a point were i feel so pleasured and feel like I'm cumming but when I go check nothing came out. I'm scared that my body just can't cum.

this was kinda rude in my opinion.

Sounds like your not allowing yourself to cum.

Hi, reasure your girfriend. Tell her what you love about her and why. Maybe sit down with her and discuss what you both like. And when she gets upset hold her and tell her shes beautiful. And maybe ask her why she feels like a freak. Get her to open up. Maybe give her the option to try new things with you. Pleasure u as well maybe. Either way switch roles. Itll make it fair and then maybe she wont be so focused on not cumming but pleasuring u and reseiving pleasure. Try new things like hitting her g spot. Instead of just her clit area. There are some good vids on yt that should help you out.

Omg reading that worked for me!

"Neither of you should be having sex until you learn more"....... really that's the advice your going to give! Hope I never have to do therapy with you!

Practice makes perfect and who are you to tell two adults they should not have sex!

Lets say a kid is not very good at sports; would your answer be to not play sports until he/she learns more about it?

Professional opinion???
The definition of professional means someone who gets paid for it so does that make you a prostitute or pornstar?

I agree with you on a few things but idk about how you opened up the answer!

I only can with anal

U can always try someone else if your boyfriend cool with it

im not tryna b mean or watever but that seemed really rude 2 me

Well that is a really harsh way of putting it because some people actually can't cum in the way they expect to cum in. The best thing to do would be to take it slow. Example; start with four play and go from there. Either that or try different positions!

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I’m 13 and me and my boyfriend had sex and I cum