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Heeyyy, I'm 21 and I feel like most of my friends have the same issue. on the other hand I can just reach down there for two seconds and my eyes are rolling back. I ask them if they play with themselves and they say it's not their thing either. For me I've been doing it since I was 14. Not that I was touched wrong young or anything that's just when I got interested. So that being said it's really really important to know yourself. To know what turns you on. At the same time you shouldn't feel awkward about watching porn. Lately pornhub has some intense stuff. Maybe start with some light amateur porn. Also if u don't want to stick your hands down there Get someone you trust or if you have the balls to do it yourself- they sell tiny vibrator rings at shoppers in the lube section. Buy one of those and just hold it on your clit and your eyes will be rolling in no time. Just relax. You have to know what it feels like to cum before you can cum for your man
Hopefully this helps and sorry if it's graphic

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Hey Yes My Name Is Alicia well i am having trouble to cum
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What have you tried so far?
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so how do you fix this
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This problem is going to be different for every person. If you would like to try to fix this for yourself, then you can send me a private message and we can figure it out.
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Tell her that you love her and support her. If it's still like this for a month or so then you should tell her she's not a freak and how you feel. If you don't care about the no cum problem then why not take her out to dinner and tell her how you feel about how she is bulling herself. Everyone has a flaw. In fact it's common for people like her to not be able to cum until around the age of 30. If you care about the problem ask if she wants to see a doctor about it. Usually they can help.
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I'm 32 years old, I've been with men in my life. My ex husband of 7 years didn't make me cum. A short term boyfriend did not long after the divorce. I left him there were a few others after. My boyfriend now of five months has made me cum once. And he feels bad when he does not. I try to tell him he pleases me but since I do not cum all the time he thinks he does not so. I've been reading different materials on the and found that helps. Good luck to all of us. With love
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Idk but death is pretty crummy
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I'm with you guys. My boyfriend can cum but I can't. When he goes down on me, I orgasm but don't cum. Which I mean makes things difficult because my boyfriend feels like he can't make me feel pleasured. Not true! I have told him I can't even make myself cum but I have orgasms. I have tried everything. Not all women can cum or squirt no matter how hard you have tried.
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Define what you mean by cum?
A woman can orgasm and some woman can ejaculate (squirt) but a woman can't cum, the white creamy fluid that comes out the vagina during masturbation or intercourse is just vaginal lubricant and cervical mucus combined to make it look like cum.
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It's also clitoral stimulation at the same time of penetration that can get you an orgasm.
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Not a professional opinion but ok
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Hunny, don't feel bad at all. I am 23 years old and have only had one orgasm since I started having sex. I am a pro at faking it. There's nights like tonight, where I wake up out of a dead sleep turned on so I try and get myself off and can't. I get this little tingle throughout my body but that's it.
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That tingle you feel could be your orgasm because they come in every size and form there is, don't go by what you see in porn with all the screaming and thrashing about because that is most certainly fake. A female orgasm can range from just a mild warming sensation to totally mind blowing depending on the person and how relaxed you are at the time, not every woman can achieve orgasm during Intercourse alone without some other form of stimulation too but don't feel bad about it because your not alone.

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I can't cum. Why is that
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