for some people, its phisically impossible. Some women have a hood over their clitoris, and some men have an under amount of nerves. its just the way you are though i am sorry to say that
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Show her what you wrote on here and it would proberbly make her feel amazing that you could confess that to strangers :)
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I'm 20 and I Lost my virginty to my boyfriend like 2 months ago ... And everytime we have sex.. I don't cum :( I feel like I can't please him !
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I am also having the same problem. I've tried different things. But every time I feel like something's going to happen I push away. Whats wrong with me?!
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hy! i'm 21 and I have more experience than u guys and still I have same problem!! i'm frustrated! i have a great partner we do absolutely everything, no tabues, but i can't cum. and he is realy big one ;D i'm lucky girl! but it seems that is not helping :/
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Hey I had that problem too. But now I can orgasm without cumming, but it's a step forward right? It's rubbing the top of your cooka. Rubbing the clit.. It's easier to do it while having sex if you know where the spot is. You don't necessarily have to actually masturbate, but if you just rub it you will feel it, and you will orgasm. I can't seem to get myself to cum either haha
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It crazy for me because i am in the same boat..i cant cum at all i use to beable to get off all the time but now since me and my man have been doing it differnt ways i havent been able to cum and when we go back to the way we did it before i still.cant and i fount out that if you have been depressed or stressed out or even if your period is weird is can mess about with you body and useing tampons while on your period can also mess with you haveing sex and getting off it can make u feel a little less not wet but my prob is i get wet fast and alot and sex is great but why cany i cum?
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I'm 20 and i'm in exactly the same boat.
I adore my bf(not my first) and we have read everything, tried everything (our tastes tend towards the kinky so i mean EVERYTHING!) but we just can't seem to make it happen! I've told him not to worry that it will happen eventually but he's getting disheartened and has taken it on as his personal mission to get me to climax. He's a bit older than me, really knows what he's doing and loves to go down on me and takes his time etc. etc., it feels like he's doing everything right but i just can't seem to let go enough to orgasm. Masturbating just doesn't do it for me, so i feel like its really a failure on my part that this isn't happening. I am in serious need of some help if anyone's got suggestions.
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i am 17 had i cant cum at all i just had sex and the guy i did it with just wanted to stop because i couldnt cum i felt so stupid i even try masterbating but it dosent even do anything....I really like this guy and i just feel like i dont please him ovbviously i cant because he just tells me i dont wanna do this anymore during sex it makes me so said is thier something wrong with me i want to cum i would love to see what it feels like .......... i need some advice :) pleasee help me out here
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binnyjinny,
Exact same boat as you. Im 18, just lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few weeks ago and we've been have a lot of sex and its good but i havent came yet...not even close during sex. When he goes down on me i can get close but still i cant actually go. Ive came a million times through masturbation though but for some reason, i cant with him!! Hes really frustrated and it makes me feel bad and frustrated as well. It makes me not even want to do stuff because i know how annoyed hes going to be...the situation sucks and if anyone has any advice, please reply.
Exact same boat as you. Im 18, just lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few weeks ago and we've been have a lot of sex and its good but i havent came yet...not even close during sex. When he goes down on me i can get close but still i cant actually go. Ive came a million times through masturbation though but for some reason, i cant with him!! Hes really frustrated and it makes me feel bad and frustrated as well. It makes me not even want to do stuff because i know how annoyed hes going to be...the situation sucks and if anyone has any advice, please reply.
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I definitely agree with civen's I mean i'm only 13 so obviously i'm not of age for 3 year's but i took his advice for masturbation and now it just 'cums' out whenever i start masturbating.also take his advice on porn.I dunno some oral cam's maybe lesbi.(Just a suggestion don't take lesbi to seriously.)then just finger to your'e heart's content girls and boy's just keep on wanking.Tip for boy's it helps if you have a picture of you're girlfriend in a sexy pose and hot clothes.(This helped me a ton!!!).But everyone just don't make the mistake of leaving you're door ajar when you're mom's home.That happened to me and that was very hard to explain.so you know just take civen's and my advice.
Hope this helps :D Good Luck :P
Hope this helps :D Good Luck :P
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I'm 18 and having sex with my bf for 4 yes and I can't come either. I get this feeling I'm going to pee my self I've read that it's a sign u gunna but ive put a couple towels under me and used my vibrator and I'm pretty sure I peed. Idk what to do cuz he really wants me too but I dont wanna pee on him.. And it's not that is isn't great sex cuz it is. And we've tried the whole extended foreplay
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