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samething over a year ago

Im 17 and my boyfriend just fingered me today for the first time. Yeah it hurt alot too, but it hurt because we are probably too tight. I know for me that im still a virgin and that that was the first time ive been fingered, so until you stretch out a little, or loosen up, its going to hurt

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GUESS over a year ago

He might have poped your cherry if , he went far enough.

but only cause you got fingered doesnt mean you not a virgan!

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You're okay over a year ago

Babydoll. What happened here, was he went far enough into you, that he broke your seal. It normally happens when you have sex. When you have sex, it breaks your seal, or rips the skin there. It's perfectly normal to bleed the way you did, because after I had sex, the exact thing happened to me. And that's because my boyfriend at the time broke the skin. So this guy did that to you. And after your seal is broken. Doing those types of things don't hurt at all anymore. So if you're ever worried about trying things like that because of the pain you experienced beforehand just know after breaking your seal, it doesn't happen again and you won't feel pain(:

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Guest over a year ago

Same here, 13 & let my boyfriend finger ne at school. Put a jacket ovr my lap to cover, it felt soo good but burned & then my vag was throbbing & I could barely get up, after a couple times it got better:)

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AnimeFreak649 over a year ago

I'm 15 and last night I fingered myself for the first time, well, I just stuck 3 fingers in. I'm a virgin and it hurt even though I wasn't moving much yet. I was very wet, but it still hurt and I was a bit sore for awhile. I don't know if I still have my hymen or not since I do alot of bike riding(I heard you can lose it that way) and I wear tampons every month. Is it possible it could just hurt from me breaking my hymen? It didn't bleed, or if it did I didn't notice. Can someone please help? It worries me a little, and this isn't really something I feel comfortable talking to my mom or doctor about.

If it means anything, my biological father molested me up until I was 5, and even though my mom took me to see the doctor shortly after and he said that I was still a virgin, who knows what stuff the bastard did to me that may have caused problems that were not noticeable back then.

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Guest over a year ago

next time have him sit behind u and use one hand on clit and other inside. get really wet first. just have fun kissing 4 an hour.

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Guest over a year ago

I still haven't been fingered yet , but it might happen pretty soon . I'm scared , that i wont get wet .

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Guest over a year ago

today was mh first time getting fingered too and it hurt like sh*t. im a virgin too and i think that because of that fact it hurt cuz by fingering you he stretched uot your vagina and that is why u r sore.((dont worry i am sore too.) just next time tell him to go a little bit slower.

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Guest over a year ago

I just got fingered like 3 and a half hours ago and it felt great. Even though I'm not a virgin my boyfriend insists on telling me that I'm tight but in my opinion it hurts more if you're tighter down there but I also think that makes it feel a lot better. But that's just me I love when he goes in there. The hurting part is probably between him going too fast, his nails being too long, and you could Possibly he tight dOwn there like I am and he may have just been tryiv to put too many fingers in that it was stretching your vagina and it's not too comfortable. I know. And the red/brownish discharge is most likely either he cut you accidentally in there with his nails or he could have went far enough in that he tore your hymen, which is kinda what people consider "popping your cherry" you dOnt have tO have sex for that to happen. That would be the most common possibility out there. Next time it happens just tell him to slow down if he's putting too many fingers in tell him to take one out or something and tell him to clip his nails if to felt any scratching on the inside of your vagina when it happened. Hope this helped a little.

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Guest over a year ago

Does a girl get pregnant, when a boy puts his finger and blood comes out.

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Anonymous over a year ago

Well, I was fingered yesterday by my boyfriend of 8 months. I'm 18 years old, and I'm still a virgin. He did it pretty fast, and I really liked what he was doing but it hurt. He was also performing oral, it was more of a switch back and forth type of thing. I orgasmed, and felt okay other than the vaginal pain. Its the next day and my pain is pretty bad, but no bleeding. I believe this is normal and things should subside within a few days.

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Guest over a year ago

he popped your cherry.

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Unknowngirl22215607 over a year ago

He probably went too deep with his finger or he cut you with of his nails. a GUY should always cut his nails not too short but enough to make sure not to cut a woman .. IMO! and a guy should never go fast unless You are enjoying it. don't let a guy tell you what to do without your permission,hun. be safe

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kelly111 over a year ago

just go to the store and buy this cream it stops you vagina from hurting

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laylabutterfly over a year ago

being a virgin being fingered with one finger doesnt hurt just relax make him play with your clit to make you wet make it use one finger when you ready for two tell him you want two and yes sex will hurt depending on how you do it just take it slow and be upfront with him

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