So this is the most embarrassing thing ive ever went through in my life. A while ago, i got drunk with these two girls, brought them to bed, made them wet by fingering them, but when it came time for intercourse, i went totally soft. I just finished them off and we hung out and they went to sleep. They were totally cool with it, but i was devastated. I couldn't fall asleep the whole night (BTW i was a virgin and still am) Now im talking to this awesome chick, and we have been having phone sex lately. THE SAD PART is that i lose my erection after 10 minutes or so. I can get it back up, but it will always go back down. I HAVE TO FAKE MY OWN GODDAM ORGASM ON THE PHONE! that is what the chicks usually do lol. I find it pathetic and funny that im going though this. BTW im 18 and this shouldn't be happening at all. I NEED HELP! ive tried lube during it, toys,ect. I relaxed myself and it kind of worked, but when things get hot it just goes into hibernation. I need something i can practice or should i just stop jerking off for like a week? Im begging for someone's help. Any advice would be appreciated.
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It sounds like you get to nervous when the time comes for the "fun" If you think about going soft when your with a girl chances are you will think about it so much that it will happen. What you need to do is focus on what is happening at that very moment, what you two are doing and what you want to do with her. Stay away from negative thoughts and just go with what feels right and have fun. It is normal for a man to think about something negative and end up not being able to perform. So just think about what is going on between you and the girl as much as possible and make sure that is all thats on your mind at the time. Also playing music in the background might help. Hope that helps.
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