I tried ovulation calculators but my period is always irregular. Anywhere from 31-45 days. My last period was from December 2nd-8th.
I started hanging out/casually dating a great guy in November and we had sex using the pullout method every day from the 14th-18th. I went out celebrating with some friends on the 20th and my ex of 3 years was there, we've always had a sense of unfinished business and long story short, we ended up having drunken sex. Stupidest mistake I could have possibly made. He did NOT pull out and we did not use a condom.
I decided to just leave that night behind me and so I saw the new guy again on the 23rd and 28th, both days we had unprotected sex. I don't believe he pulled out in the right time those days.
I got a postive home test on January 11th. I'm now 28 weeks with a girl.
I know those dates are close and I feel like a truly horrible person. I've called myself the nasiest things and I know others will too. I've been been so scared and ashamed. I feel like I don't deserve my daughter. She's too perfect and I love her so much and she's not even here yet. How could I make such a huge mistake and get such an amazing gift in return?
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Hi Summer,
Don't be so hard on yourself. It happened. Continue to focus on your daughter and the joy she'll bring.
Unfortunately, due to the the irregular periods AND having sex with both guys within a few days of each other, you WILL need a DNA test. Sperm can survive up to about 5 days.
You can test now using a non-invasive DNA test. Google it.
Wish we could help more.
Good luck.
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