OMGOSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH plase can some one help me ????
so im 15 and have a 6 week old daughter i no im young but befor i had emma me and my boyfriend (emmas dad) promised me that he will be there for me no matter what and scence emma has been born he has gone out partieing bringing all his friends home and stuff im sceard for myself and my daughter i dont want to dump him because he is the father of my daugter and i am not have ing my daughter grow up with out a father but i just cant take the stress she is in my lp this miniet falling asleep finale but i feel like i cant live on this planet no more every one told me that haveing this babe will change ,y life but i didnt no this much whilst my boyfriend is out haveing drinks getting drunk smokeing you no the normale teenag behaviour im sitting at home with a new born going in sain and he gets home and exspects sex from me like WTF we live in a apartment on the beach front and he thinks he owns me im not aloud to do any thing but he is were have i gone wrong in life please some one any one help me what can i do to make it stop and when he comes home and exspects more sex im to tierd to and im dodnt want to get prego again so plaese any advice muchly xxx tasha
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As much as it will hurt to leave that person, it's probably whats best for you and your daughter. Try talking to him, if her cares about you and your baby he'll put in the time to make sure everybody's happy. The quality time between you two is expected to decrease after having a baby. The same with your energy for anything really. I two expected more from my boyfriend after having our little one, but things dont work out that easily. Although you are young, you now have to make adult decisions for whats best for your child. Your child is top priority. Consider your options, if the father was not there. Guys mature a lot slower than women, so it may take a while before he see's whats best. Try to lift your spirits up, you can make it, so many other SINGLE women have done it. That little peanut that your holding loves you unconditionally, and needs you to protect, and love them. Having a child requires sacrifice of your quality tiemtime. Believe it will get better. Review your options/support system family if possible. If there is no one, see what you are able to do on your own. It's not the end of the world, but a new beginning for you and your little one, hopefully the father is on board. He is not inferior, you stay strong. Once again, if he cares about you he'll sit down and listen to what you have to say, and put in the time to make a change. He maynot have expected to have to make a huge sacrifice either. This is common with guys. I understand you not wanting your daughter to grow up without a fater, but you'll be sacrificing your happiness if that guy continues to treat you the same. Your condition maybe different, he could be providing you with the essentials, clothes, food, shelter I dont know. This are common reason's that women stick with the one their with. Anyway wish you the best.
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