Aphrodisiacs, substances that kindle romantic love and possibly awaken the desire for sex, were once made in a very personal conversation with an herbalist who understood that physical expressions of love were about more than having functioning body parts.

The herbal arts of supporting romance have almost completely faded from public view, but there are still plants that change the function of the brain in ways that result in a healthier, more holistic romantic relationship. Ten plants that change the brain for better relationships and better sex are listed below.
1. Yohimbe.
The West African yohimbe tree is the source of a remedy recommended to men who suffer from erectile dysfunction. There isn't any doubt that the herb will work. Yohimbine hydrochloride was the 1980's equivalent of Viagra. It was even standardized for pharmacies and sometimes paid for by insurance (outside the USA). When yohimbe isn't effective, it's usually because the product is adulterated. It's hard to find the "real thing" outside a few herb shops run by small groups of professional herbalists today.
The effects of yohimbe, however, are not limited to a man's genitals, or to men, for that matter. Yohimbe increases a desire for closeness before it powers blood flow to the genitals. Both men and women are more "in the mood" when they use yohimbe, but it is necessary to observe precautions when someone interested in the herb is suffering from heart disease or high blood pressure.
2. Damiana.
Damiana is a small shrub that produces round, yellow, flowers that smell like chamomile. When scientists have studied damiana, they have usually administered it to sexually exhausted male rats to encourage them to mate some more. In human men, the small flowers of this shrub can help extend sexual vigor. But in its traditional use in precolonial Mexico, the herb was made into a tea drunk with sugar to encourage "sweet" romantic relationships even after exhausting toil in the fields or on the pyramids.
3. Passionflower.
Passionflower, known in Latin America as maracuja and found from South America to Texas, is so sexy even its name invokes romantic passion. Every part of the plant contains compounds that block the degradation of testosterone in the bodies of both men and women. These compounds do not stimulate the production of the male sex hormone, potentially causing it to accumulate to unhealthy levels, but they do keep the testosterone that is already in circulation from being broken down. Passionflower isn't just helpful for maintaining your sex drive and rekindling your romantic life. This flower also contains compounds that stimulate white blood cells known as macrophages to fight bacterial infections, and compounds that lift depression. (And what's sexier than a good mood?)
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4. Cashews.
Vacations to tropical resorts often reignite romance. Vacations to tropical resorts that serve cashews may resort in love that is just a little hotter. Cashew nuts can stimulate libido, and also help fight infections by strengthening the immune system. There are two caveats to the consumption of cashews as an aphrodisiac. One is that it's the soft, fleshy fruit of the cashew that is used as aphrodisiac, not the nut. The other is that uncooked cashews are toxic. These nuts have to be heated before they are safe to eat. Cashew fruit extracts and frozen cashew fruit are the best choices outside the tropics, where they may be available fresh, and you may be able to find these in health food stores.
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5. Ashwagandha.
An Ayurvedic herb probably better known for its use in treating age-related memory loss, ashwagandha is used in traditional South Asian herbal formulas that treat the loss of libido in people of both sexes. This traditional herb of Ayurveda has an unusual effect. It stimulates dreams about sex and desire for sex before it stimulates the physical ability to have sex, or more sex.

6. Picho huayo.
Picho huayo, also known by its botanical name Siparuna guianensis, is a rainforest herb that is also found in the cloud forests on the lower slopes of the Andes mountains. Growing in trees, it is easily recognized by its bright pink flowers that have a lemony scent. The traditional use of the herb was as a body wash thought to make men irresistible (or at least less malodorous). The herb also relieves runny nose and sinus congestion, both of which are definite turn-offs in the boudoir.
7. Rosewood oil.
Rosewood oil, which is painstakingly made by crushing and steaming the bark and woo of the Amazonian rosewood tree, is a traditional aphrodisiac for women in many South American rainforest tribes. This oil is believed to restore interest in sex, and also to treat common infections. Rosewood oil is popular among herbal medicine enthusiasts around the world, but its production is controversial, since making the oil requires chopping down rosewood trees in the rain forest.
8. Catuaba.
Catuaba (pronounced kothway-BA) is a tree of northern Brazil and the Amazon rainforest that can be recognized by its white flowers and red berries. This plant's bark is used to make the most popular herbal aphrodisiac in Brazil. The catuaba plant also produces yohimbine, so this tree has quite a lot to offer. If you are looking for the benefits of yohimbe, you are more likely to find them in a bottle of catuaba extract, because the makers of extracts of this plant tend to be more ethical than the makers of yohimbe products.
9. Tamamuri.
Tamamuri is an Amazonian mulberry tree that can growing up to 25 meters (75-80 feet) high, into the canopy of the rain forest. The medicinal properties of this plant are found in the latex that oozes from its bark, which local tribes also use in witchcraft. The oozing, white, sap is believed to enhance ejaculation in men who use it (as if you needed that visual clue), and native healers also use the sap to treat syphilis. The anti-infective properties of the plant have been confirmed in scientific testing, although the aphrodisiac properties of the plant, at least to date, have not.
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10. Guarana.
It's relatively easy to identify guarana berries in the jungle. Hibiscus-red blossoms yield berries that look like eyes, a black center on a white background, staring down at you from the plant. Guarana berries are used in countless energy drinks in tiny amounts with a claim that they stimulate overall energy and fight fatigue; whether this occurs in the doses used in energy drinks is questionable, but the raw berry certainly stimulates activity. Most advertisers of guarana energy drinks, due to government regulations, don't mention that they are also used as an aphrodisiac in the South American countries where they are produced. Since this one is easy to come by, it may be the first one to try if you are looking for a new adventure in the bedroom.
- Kotta S, Ansari SH, Ali J. Exploring scientifically proven herbal aphrodisiacs. Pharmacogn Rev. 2013 Jan. 7(13):1-10. doi: 10.4103/0973-7847.112832. PMID: 23922450 [PubMed]
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