14 and over weight

I'm the same age and I get bullied about it too. I've been over weight for a while and I try to loose weight and I still need to. I've tried not eating for awhile... Which I know isn't good but sometimes I can't help it. If u try not eating it gives u bad headaches but it does work. But just keep doing what ur doing

I'm a male, just so you know. My whole life I was overweight. Because I was so much bigger than everyone, I played football my whole life in school. When I was 14 I was really big. I was 5' 6 and about 220 pounds. Playing football didn't help much. I thought I was gonna be fat my whole life so I got used to it.

When I started playing high school football I was working out everyday also. It was required with my school to lift weights on a certain program that was set up specifically for my weight. As I got older I grew taller. I also grew some very much liked muscle mass. I was about 205 Lbs. Being taller stretched my weight more evenly throughout my body. I was where I wanted to be actually. I was what all of us that were picked on and overweight wanted to be. Girls came in my life and I was good at football so it help with people liking me. That was a few years ago though...

Now I'm 19 and about 5' 10. I weigh, roughly, about 165. I have graduated high school and do nothing but work everyday. When you are young and in school, you tend to sit around a lot. You tend to always be at your house playing video games and watching tv. You get bored so you eat because your bored. Even if you play football you will not be fit doing that. I lost all that muscle and fat when I got out of high school. Instead of spending 8 hours sitting in a chair listening to a teacher, I spend 8 hours on my feet at a restaurant. Restaurants are very fast paced so I was always moving as fast as I could. When I wasn't working I was driving to my friends house. Just chilling and acting up. 

When your world opens up and you have a job to worry about and a car, gas, girlfriends. You wont be sitting at home all day. When you get out of school you will realize just how lazy we are when we go to school. We wake up, eat, sit all day at school, eat at school, go home, eat, play video games, eat, watch tv, and eat at the same time. When you get out of school its wake up, tell yourself you will eat at work, so busy you can't eat, on your feet pouring sweat all day, still working your ass off at work, go home, hopefully you eat before you take a shower and pass out to do it all over again the next day... 

I am 19 now and I am about 165... I actually miss when I was bigger. I was so used to being able to man handle someone in a fight that I have to get used to getting my ass whopped a little more often because I cant man handle people anymore. I hope you read all this because I promise you will understand later in life.

lets address the bullys , believe it or not they are hurting more than you.did you notice that they only bully when their with their friends and they get other friends to join in because of peer pressure ,you take a studrnt going into the next grade, she wants to be liked fearful of being talked about and being in the in crowd,they meet this new b***h or bastard hes -she are usually instagators and just so messed up and their home life is bad, they get bullied at home, and yes i blame the kids you no  what your doing is cruel, these cold predators look for ways to screw with the week and meek , no offence, okay,,you need to set the rules of the game,, fast even before you loose this weight and their like whos this will get to that,,okay,, the rules go as follows you see the b***h turn quickley get out of her line of sight, your not running,,ill explain,,okay,, next parents say ignor, dont let it bother you , your beautiful,, or else you didnt tell anyone but your best friend or other victims,,once they get you in public and they embarrased you and you look scared afraid alone and everyone is laughing,even the ones that aint laughing to you they are,they got their target for that year  possibly more,ya their assholes,, its ok laugh ,, well arent they,, now just think ,,, these idiots just wont stop picking on me, instesd of crying for the hundredth time ,,set the rules of your game ,, get ready and be armed ,, as soon as she starts to insult you ,, yell out  wait  ,, she will be shocked ,, put your index not middle finger up,, yell wait,, again,, every time she trys to insult say,, wait,, index up,,, loudly,, but smile,,then before she trys to out yell and speak over you.. say,, loudly  didnt you here me wait,,tell me later... and move on,, she will be yelling ya run fatass,, run ,,, keep yelling ..wait,, but turn quickly look in her eyes smile.. by this time you turned the corner dodged in the janitors closet,, who cares that was 3 min she didnt own you,, in the lunch room ,, do the same,, once she realizes she dont own you her power and her cheerleaders will laugh at what your doing not with you,,shell be embarrased pisst ready for you next time she sees the whites of your eyes,, okay,,round two,, gets worse,,  no way that fat b***h dissed me,, their planning,, comes easy for these predators,, their masters of hurt,, hurt people hurt people dont you no,, thats what youll say next,, keep saying when she tries to talk,, hurt people hurt people,,, your mom will disagree,, dont be a punching bag,, okay,, say it mean it move on,,quickly ,, not like your running,, then youll have to message me ,,you didnt gain wait fast so it takes rules disiplin,removing the temtation, like an alcoholic , he hits the bottom cry so ut for help,, gets to a meeting, gets a sponsor,, hes with other people like him,,hurt lonley feels less than,, depressed,, why cant i stop ,,drinking,, you eating,, they tell him its a disease,,,, it works if you work it,, yhe program guidlines set by other alcoholics,, your case over eaters,, good luck ,,

thanks for the advise when i go back to school in two days (half term over :( ) they dont bully me bad it is either because i used to have spots but 2 weeks ago got a cream now they have nealy gone or it was because i have kikers and where i mooved to from london uk to manchester 7hr drive away they dont like them so all the time i am trying to be strong but sometimes i cant but if i could put my finger up at them i would but they are to mean and my school will probably put me in isolation so what else can i do i am extreamly gratefull tho xxxxx

Hi there! Try using a Sweat Suit! They can help you lose weight fast and there is evidence that they can help with your skin as well! I don't think I can post a link, but if you go to a website that is called sweatsuits then you can look them up there!

thanks i have heard of that before on a programme on tv i will look more into it thanks x x

thanks for the reply x

I would definitely recommend getting a sweat suit! I'm 16 and was 15 and a half stone two years ago! I am now down to 10 stone 2 after my mum got me a sweat suit from  

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