I'm 65, attractive, in good shape for my age and have maintained my same weight through out our 25 years of marriage. My husband has trouble getting and keeping an erection though I'm ready and willing for sex most anytime. Instead, he pays lots of $$ for Viagara prescription (taken 1 hour before sex). I know where he keeps the prescription bottle so I know the regularity of his masturbation (about every 4 days).
I have tried to talk to him about our lack of sex. At first I thought perhaps he was having an affair but now I'm inclined to think he just prefers to pleasure himself as the pills seem to disappear late at night when he's home with me after I've gone to bed. We're both retired and spend lots of time together.
We have a very good marriage, have lots of fun together. Should I try being more sexually aggressive (has never been my nature) or just accept the fact that this is the way it is and give it a rest rather than embarassing him. He is a private person and I don't want him to feel shamed in anyway. BTW, my sexual needs have decreased through the years as well and once a month with my trusty vibrater works fine for me. I just don't know if his behavior is normal for a 73 year old husband or maybe I'm worrying for nothing. I didn't know a man needed Viagara to masturbate. ???
Thank you so much for any thoughts. I really don't have anyone I can talk to about this.
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