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I'm 23, unemployed, and still living at home with parents. I plan on starting college this January. I was on birth control when I got pregnant so it was not at all intentional.

My boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost a year. He does NOT want this baby. When I told him I was pregnant, without hesitation his response was, "So, abortion right?" I don't know what to do... I really don't want to go through an abortion, but at the same time I don't want to bring a baby into our lives especially when the both of us aren't ready. I definitely don't want to force someone to be a father. I know I can get some help from the state if I decide to keep the baby and I'm sure my parents will help me out financially. But I really don't know how much longer the father and I are going to be together. I do not want to be a single mother, not to mention one of those people who pops out 4 kids all by different dads. I want to give my child a good life and I want it to have two parents who love it. And I never wanted to have a baby if I had to get help supporting it... I feel so disgusted that I'd have to live off the state.

I found out today as I watched videos of an 8 week old embryo, that it moves around inside me... And now I feel even worse for some reason. Is it a human life? I know it can't feel yet but I don't know if I can have someone suck it out with a tube. I have an appointment with Planned Parenthood tomorrow for a pre-op. Then the day after tomorrow I am scheduled for the abortion. I am not looking forward to the side affects if I go through with it. But I don't want the side affects of a pregnancy either. :-(

I really don't know what to do.

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Did you figure out what you wanted to do? Just remember you need to do what you think is best. DOnt let other people tell you what to do.
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Wow this is me all over! And i am the same amount along as you. I wish i knew what you ended up doing. I would like to know. However this post was forever ago.
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don't have an abortion, have the baby. there are a lot of organizations that will help you. Go to a Roman Catholic church for help and they will guide you. Good luck.
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