Hi...I am 17yrs. old and I have a boyfriend....We have been together since last eight months..I have responded negatively to all his requests for sex as I am very afraid of bleeding after losing my virginity? What should I do to stop bleeding after first time sex? Are any ointments, or any chemicals available( like ether, etc.) which will help arrest my bleeding after sex?
I am worried...Please guide me..!
I am worried...Please guide me..!
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Some women bleed after sex, some don't, there's no way to tell beforehand.
However if you are scared, it could be that you are not ready for sex and maybe you should wait longer, don't feel pressured into it.
Only have sex when you are fully ready to do it.
However if you are scared, it could be that you are not ready for sex and maybe you should wait longer, don't feel pressured into it.
Only have sex when you are fully ready to do it.
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yep, as hearted said, if you are scared you aren't ready yet. give it time!
also, the bleeding only lasts a very short while, is a very small amount of blood, and is pretty painless in itself (the hymen has very little nerve endings in it!!!)
also, the bleeding only lasts a very short while, is a very small amount of blood, and is pretty painless in itself (the hymen has very little nerve endings in it!!!)
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Thanks for your replies......
I also read the article " From Ow to Wow: demystifying painful sex!" and I find it very useful.
I have also asked my BF to go over it.
thanks once again for all your advice.....
I also read the article " From Ow to Wow: demystifying painful sex!" and I find it very useful.
I have also asked my BF to go over it.
thanks once again for all your advice.....
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hi !
im a 17 year old girl as well and me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and i lost my virginity to him ... i didnt have alot of blood at all until later that night when i was home and it didnt hurt me as much as i thought it would and im a big baby haha ... but to tell you the truth i really didnt like sex at first ... it didnt feel good for me ...we had sex once a week and unlike most people i wasnt to excited to have it ... but as i got more comfortable with him and our bodys i really started to enjoy it ! but you also have to think if you want to give you " V card" to him ... i knew for a fact i wanted to give my boyfriend mine ... so be sure YOU want to have sex, dont do it becuz you think itll make him happier ! well i hope this helped because i know exactly how you feel well let me know what happens and GOOD LUCK !
im a 17 year old girl as well and me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and i lost my virginity to him ... i didnt have alot of blood at all until later that night when i was home and it didnt hurt me as much as i thought it would and im a big baby haha ... but to tell you the truth i really didnt like sex at first ... it didnt feel good for me ...we had sex once a week and unlike most people i wasnt to excited to have it ... but as i got more comfortable with him and our bodys i really started to enjoy it ! but you also have to think if you want to give you " V card" to him ... i knew for a fact i wanted to give my boyfriend mine ... so be sure YOU want to have sex, dont do it becuz you think itll make him happier ! well i hope this helped because i know exactly how you feel well let me know what happens and GOOD LUCK !
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