Hi guys! This is awkward.. I'm 13 and I really need some new ideas for masturbating! I've tried fingering but it doesn't do much! No dildos or vibrators (parents) but any other ideas..?
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First of all? Kudos. "I'm 13 and I want to masturbate" is about 700 times better than the normal "I'm 13, and I totally wanna sleep with someone". Personally, I started masturbating when I was 6 (yeah, I know, that's weird) but the best advice I can give you is patience. It wasn't until I was 13, almost 14 that I actually had my first orgasm. Also, if fingering doesn't work for you, try playing with your clitoris instead. I still cannot pleasure myself by actual insertion, it doesn't feel like anything but a weird massage to me. If you've got awhile to explore, try playing a bit with your breasts (though, I also don't like that when I'm by myself, so just find out what works for you) while just closing your eyes and fantasizing. Whatever you like, just think about it in detail before you actually touch yourself. If you can get yourself turned on? You'll enjoy it much more when you actually do. Women have sex more with their brains than their bodies, so when you do decide to touch yourself, don't stop fantasizing! Picture a guy (or girl, whatever you're into) doing the things to you that you're doing to yourself. And don't expect anything out of yourself. If you enjoy it? Just keep doing it. If you don't, don't dwell on it, and touch somewhere else or think another thought. Also, you have a lot of spots on your body that can surprisingly turn you on. Try touching (or in your fantasy, imagine someone touching) your ears, your collarbone/throat, the back of your neck, the small of your back, behind your knees, the bottoms of your feet, insides of your elbows, or the insides of your wrists. Also, if you have a nice texture you like (such as a silk nightgown, or a furry rug, or a boyfriend's shirt *winkwink*), try incorporating that. Pulling a few feathers on some earrings over your tummy, teasing your nipples with wet fingertips, or laying on a really fuzzy, soft rug while you make yourself wiggle can be incredibly hot.
If nothing works for you, you can always google it, or if you have questions or would like more suggestions, just ask, and I'll try to help. Good luck on your adventure ^^
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