im 15 year old girl...i hav a few questions...i hav been masturbating since i can remember...i used to masturbate by lying on my stomach and rubbing a stuffed animal or pillow on my vagina with both my hands really hard..now i just use my hands as there is not enough pressure wen i use a pillow..
is this method harmful?..
could it be harming my genitals?...im also not sure if i orgasm as i dont make any noise or feel a "big explosion" i jus stop after a minute or 2 becos i jus feel finishd..i hav huge labia minora i was wondering could this method be the cause of it? and i dont feel any sensativity in my labia which is od as they are so large??...when i rub my clit or finger myself i dont feel any plessure at all?? even if i put the shower head on my clit..wats wrong with me??
is this method harmful?..
could it be harming my genitals?...im also not sure if i orgasm as i dont make any noise or feel a "big explosion" i jus stop after a minute or 2 becos i jus feel finishd..i hav huge labia minora i was wondering could this method be the cause of it? and i dont feel any sensativity in my labia which is od as they are so large??...when i rub my clit or finger myself i dont feel any plessure at all?? even if i put the shower head on my clit..wats wrong with me??
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What you are doing is rubbing your clitoris. It's fine! And it shouldn't be harmful at all, unless you feel pain.
As for the orgasm...
While you masturbate, your body should become excited.. You may sweat, your nipples might get hard.. The clitoris swells.. You're experiencing a.. pleasurable tension building in your body...
Now then... An orgasm doesn't mean a 'Big bang' totally.. An orgasm is the point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions that may be felt in the vagina and/or uterus
And remember, a vagina is like a finger print, so to say.. Everyone is different. Your lips could be bigger, or smaller, and it's normal.
As the not experiencing pleasure from touching yourself.... What came to my mind, is turn yourself on.. Maybe watch a quick clip of porn, just get yourself excited! Turned on, turned on.. Then try exploring yourself. (As for a great way to masturbate.. A vibrating toothbrush. After you're turned on, take the tooth brush, and turn that on. Place it on your clitoris. If that doesn't work.. Use your finger, or the the end of a sharpie {Not the end with the cap!} And put that into your vagina.. Rub against the walls, try to find your G-Spot. Or sometimes just push against the walls, and imagine a sexual fantasy. And the best thing about it, is no one will suspect a thing! You can ask your parents for a vibrating tooth brush, or buy one yourself, and no one will know a thing!)
Hope I helped. If anything isn't clear, just say so, and I'll check back later to try to explain a little more.
As for the orgasm...
While you masturbate, your body should become excited.. You may sweat, your nipples might get hard.. The clitoris swells.. You're experiencing a.. pleasurable tension building in your body...
Now then... An orgasm doesn't mean a 'Big bang' totally.. An orgasm is the point at which all the tension is suddenly released in a series of involuntary and pleasurable muscular contractions that may be felt in the vagina and/or uterus
And remember, a vagina is like a finger print, so to say.. Everyone is different. Your lips could be bigger, or smaller, and it's normal.
As the not experiencing pleasure from touching yourself.... What came to my mind, is turn yourself on.. Maybe watch a quick clip of porn, just get yourself excited! Turned on, turned on.. Then try exploring yourself. (As for a great way to masturbate.. A vibrating toothbrush. After you're turned on, take the tooth brush, and turn that on. Place it on your clitoris. If that doesn't work.. Use your finger, or the the end of a sharpie {Not the end with the cap!} And put that into your vagina.. Rub against the walls, try to find your G-Spot. Or sometimes just push against the walls, and imagine a sexual fantasy. And the best thing about it, is no one will suspect a thing! You can ask your parents for a vibrating tooth brush, or buy one yourself, and no one will know a thing!)
Hope I helped. If anything isn't clear, just say so, and I'll check back later to try to explain a little more.
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Can you help me out please? I somewhat have the same issueor maybe a littlemore. I really need your help :( I have the same problem :( I can't cum :( It feels great but i can't come. The other thing is that when finger myself i dont' use my fingers. I don't feel much pleasure in that. Instead i use bottles. I rub shampoo bottles or lotion bottles and that to over my pajamas. Is this harmful? And ever since i started doing this i have stopped having discharge. Otherwise i use to have white discharge coming outall the time and now i don't :( Help me please :(
Other than that before i started fingering which was like a couple of weeks back, i used to rub my vagina against hard things like bed corners and Square sink corners. It felt great but it use to hurt like crazy so my bf said i should stop.
Other than that before i started fingering which was like a couple of weeks back, i used to rub my vagina against hard things like bed corners and Square sink corners. It felt great but it use to hurt like crazy so my bf said i should stop.
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I use a electric toothbrush on my clit but right b4 i get a orgasm i start to feel this unbearable tickle on my clit. Is that bad???
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Im a 13 old boy and I want to know if I masturbate wrong? So what i do does not seem the usual way as i just use 3 of my fingers to like caress the penis. I dont even need to be hard to do this. Can someone tell me if this is wrong?
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