:'( i see all these post 7 years ago i found out i was going to have a baby i was 18 at the time on may 24 1999 i had a wonderfull bundle of joy i had a 6 pound baby boy every thing went good from what i new so the next day we got to go home!! we took him back to the doc for check up at 3 days old i told the doc he was not feading well and he was really sleepy, he told me he was 3 weeks early and its going to take him some time to catch up. he tested for jondus the doc told me to put him in the sun and feed him more so i did just that .at 2 and a half weeks i took him to the ER agan haveing a verry hard time feeding him and to me he just did not look right :-( thay told me agan to take him home nothing was wrong with him so i did. 5 days later i was sitting here feeding him and he bent rock hard backwords and his eyes rolled up in his head. i rushed him to the ER and we sat there for 8 hrs them telling me agan he was fine 8 hrs later he did it agan. then i seen them jumping around thay rushed him to ICU and then put on life support that night thay had asked us if we hurt him or shook him i was getting really pissed off was not tell the next day thay had asked me if i had herpies and i do thay had told us it was to late to save tyler he was pretty much brain dead so we took him off life support and lived untell he was 3 but had a hard life all he did was cry i miss him so much its been 4 years now with out him. i did tell my doc i had herpies he never told me to watch out for brake outs or that it can harm a baby in such a bad way if you are going to have a baby tell your doc you have it and make sure he care for you the way he should you dont want to go throw what i did