Hi Iam a mother of one I have been trying to have another baby but has not happened My daugther is almost 2 I don't want her to grow up by her self I had thought about adopting a child but my husband dose not want to do that if it was baby or a young child he would not care as much but he told me it would not be the same as if we concived it between the two of us but i told him that it's a child and did not ask to be here and i told him if that has to come abouth you will love it as your own