I had a complete hysterectomy over 7 years ago. As a result of that I had a fistula. The urologist told me I had a hysterectomy that was like a 3rd world country. Before he repaired the fistula, caused by the gyno, I was litteraly urinating out of my vagina. Seven years later, I still have to wear a bladder pad. I'm afraid to have sex for fear I'm going to urinate all over my partner. Can anyone help me?