Boyfriends and their annoying video games

Personaly i like guys that spend to much time playing video games. It makes my job that much easier to get into their girlfriends/wifes panties. For some of em i would even be willing to pay for the subscribtion. Trust me it works!! It's amazing, I do what they don't, keep on playing your games please. Thanks

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Hi Yes I read your thing about this....



i got some good tips or advice for any female who has a boyfriend that doesnt pay enough attention to you that will make him think twice about giving you the attention you need or at least find out what his REAL feelings about you are. i gotta list too big and everyone's situation is different so if u want let me know



N I would want you to tell me some things bc I got some questions of my own.. Maybe u could answer them for me?



I am Janine sparks and I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for one year n three months. And its ither he goes to school, the straight to work, then comes home, then video games...till about midnight.. When he doesnt even act like im there. When i want to leave the room for some odd reason (hint bc im bored n dont want to watch him) he gets upset.. and doesnt understand why i leave or how come i nv want to play with him. When i told him that its not my thing. He doesnt understand why i cant sit next to him n "he says give him attention/ love" Which im sorry but im not just going to sit there be bored n watch him do something that i dont want to do just to make him happy when he doesnt even really know im there...



I try over and over again to talk to him about this but he tells me "honey I Dont play that much" Or Ur crazy, and stop being a women" Seriously... Im being trying to be rude about it its just that I want him to do some things that I Like to do once n a while. n actualy talk to me about his feelings. N after sex...He raley cuddles with me...Then straight back to the video games he goes...



PLEASE HELP ME!!! Send me an email please...



i would really like to know some answers.



thanks.... janine

Any of you girls tried meeting them halfway on this?

Maybe pick up a controller and play along with them, turn it into a group activity?!

I did with my ex and we adored playing together. Find something two player, and have a go. Even if you don't enjoy it see if you can have a play - it'll make him happy and hopefully then he'll be more willing to realise that you are "fun" and "exciting" like the games are!

If this doesn't work and all else fails... unplug the wire from the console until he's willing to chat.

Theres a good chance that when / if you go on shopping trips that he's bored out of his mind too, it's a game of give and take. ^.^

anonymous wrote:

lottie m wrote:

my boyfriend always wants to play on the playstation after sex, rather than talk and cuddle. If i get dressed after sex he always sais 'why did u get dressed' er.... because im not guna sit there naked while u play on a computer game! its sooooo anyoing

I know, I have the same problem. I go over his house EVERDAY and all he does is play video games then we have sex he once he's done he goes and plays video games agin it's like im his like sex toy or something

Thats exactly what you are, a cum rag he can use when he's not headshotting people in Call of Duty

I don't have a boyfriend for anything but I can relate this to one of my friends. 

Totally know how you feel ... iv lived with my bf for bout a year n a half n after sex he will either jump on his pc (W.o.W or L.o.L) and probably b there all night until he has work next day. Our living room is like a games room cant watch anything but him playing games n tbh ID RATHER WATCH PAINT DRY iv confronted him but nothing seems to change apart from the fact i know he loves me - he cant go a day without saying it or if hes at work he calls every break to see how i am ... i guess thats why i let him do what he wants but like every girl out there.. i want to b closer and not be ignored cuz he has his headset on with his pals all the time. I can sit next to him for hours n speak to him n all i get is mhmm yeh no .. okay babe and wanna do me a favour cuz the keyboard is on my lap... sh*t life huh?

So what's the big deal ? it's the sam thing like u get a cigarette and smoke one.

I want to no

yea my bf plays games all the time but he stills gives me all of him. he donest do what most may do to some females. in fact i play games as well=) so girls just relax get and get to know your mate a little more than you already do=)

My husband is the same way and you know what? Screw em. If they want to spend all of their time wasting away and causing future eye problems on playing video games, let them. Start doing things you have always wanted to do with your life. Go out, have fun. At one point they may realize that you have been gone a lot and when they ask whats up then explain. I get that my guy wants to play to help him chill after a long day at work, but hours and hours and day after day can be annoying. If you really cant take it, then dump them or lose them.

I concur with this advice.

You're dating a human being after all; you have every right to be given a fair amount of attention.

You could suggest that he go see an addiction counselor and / or psychologist. If he refuses, then perhaps it's best for you to decide whether to stay or go.

Remember: video games are a serious addiction. Most video games are designed to be played for hours and hours because there's just so much to do within each game. These hours can turn to weeks / months / years. They are rewarded in various forms by succeeding in the game, thus their never ending desire to play just one more hour....

Many are in denial, saying that they only play a couple hours a week. This denial is quite common in addicts. Do not take video game addiction lightly. There's absolutely nothing funny about this addiction.

If we're talking about a young teenage boy, curb his habits now. If we're talking about a young adult in university/college, he'd better have some self-discipline to have enough study time.
Finally, if we're talking about adults with responsibilities, then he should know better by that point in his life and is now wasting your time.

Put a time limit on what you want, deem fair. Then leave, plain and simple.

I am 40ish my husband of 8 months is 40, we have known each other for 12 years and he has played his video games for years while i would watch him,  he stopped playing before we got married to pull me in,but he never played as much as he does now. its like this I keep my body in shape he does not. he comes home sit in front of the play station and says what is for dinner its been like this everyday. and if he does spend time with me he. gets upset, our sex life is not. we don't even sleep in the same bed or room. but he can spend most of his time text on his phone to his female co-workers. and Facebook friends.. the hours he spends on play station is 16 to 20 hours on the weekend to 30 hours a week. never sends me flowers or text to say nice things. I have to go get. almost every nite i cry myself to sleep, i have to go and be put on anti-depression med to deal with this child i married. what can i do leaving him is not in my plans. I tried everything  talking to him about it all he says is < I knew before we married he was like this, that don't make it right. hell ,he don't even wash my car or keep check on the maintenance

and if i beg then we have sex for all of 5mins. then back to game or sleep.

Rather than insisting that your partner stop indulging in a passion that makes his life better, how about making an effort to understand the reasons for his behaviour in the first place? I haven't seen anybody here ask the question : 'Why?'

 

Just be grateful that video-game virtual reality is still in its infant stages. In 20 years, the whinings of controlling girlfriends will effectively become redundant and replaced by the sweet humourings of women who actually want you to play games - because they're in them.

 

Ahh.. By the way, anybody got a time machine?

My boyfriend and I both play video games. I got him into this one game and he got so addicted that he chooses to fight over the damn thing even if he's leaving the country for weeks in a few days. Reasons are usually about me not backing him up in the game or sending reinforcement or whatever but pretty stupid to stop talking for days.

Just because we complain about the gaming doesn't mean we don't try to appreciate it or see your point of view. An earlier post said she's pregnant with his child and she's being ignored and check ups not gone with for games. Do you think that's going half way?

HA HA HA!! :)