I'm 13 and in my life there's been much controversy over my future career when I grow up. About a year ago I decided I wanted to do what I do best when I grow up: video games. I've been with video games since I was in 1st grade, as bad as that sounds, video games have served a really important role in my life whether it be letting me vent after getting angry, distracting me from some sort of major pain (which I experienced a lot growing up), etc. Thing is is that I don't know how to tell my parents this. I've told my mom about once or twice and she was somewhat accepting but I have yet to tell my dad and probably won't for a while until I figure this out. Reason being is that my dad is very commanding and deciding of what my life is. Majority of my life was having to do what he said and whenever he said, even if it was against my will. He made me play soccer starting in 3rd grade and while I enjoyed it all the way to 6th grade, once I hit 7th I started losing interest in it. Wanted to stop cause it was causing my grades to drop harder and faster than a hardcore dubstep beat. I didn't like how competitive and serious everything was cause I always wanted to have a nice amount of fun in everything. But since I made the decision that I didn't want to play anymore, my dad got mad. Like really MAD. So that kinda set the stage for my fear of telling him about my career choice. I'm putting this here because I need help in this situation and I seriously don't know what to do at this point.