My husband is quite often depressed over video games. He always gets angry over them aswell, but it bothers me more so when he gets so down because of them. He plays them quite a bit but not all too often. The thing is though, is that he'd like to be playing them 24/7 on the weekends and gets mad at me for wanting to spend time together outside, god forbid. When he does go out with me, which at first I think is cause he wants to spend time with me, he later says he did it to make me 'happy'. He's very focused on what e considers acheivments, in both real life and non. Because of this he gets depressed when he can't achieve his goals in a game, but he doesn't put half the amount of effort in achieving his real life goals he sets. Needless to say, this whole thing has caused many a fight, once a week if not more. I have talked to him many times about this, and he just says I should realize how important it is to him and support him... He doesn't understand my view on things, he just thinks I'm clingy. But I just feel degraded and unloved at this point. And this is all over a video game... How pathetic...