Breaking hymen - bleeding

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Anyone have an idea to my previous question? I'm the big dude with the little virgin girlfriend.

Thanks!

Breaking a hymen is not a big deal. I'm not going to say it won't hurt, for some it will, but it's not a grantee. The first time I had sex, it was uncomfortable but didn't hurt, and there was only a few drops of blood. My hymen finally tore with a later boyfriend, but I actually didn't feel it at all, I just noticed that I was bleeding (which lasted less than an hour).

The truth is, all hymens are not created equal. Some are big, some are small, some are stretchy, and some girls (not very many) don't even have them. There are a lot of girls out there who bleed and hurt the first time they decide to have sex, but there are also a lot of girls who don't even break their hymens during sex, or whose hymens don't break at all. If you're worrying about what it's going to be like, STOP. Sex is not something you should engage in for the first time unless you really trust your partner, and he really cares about you too, he'll take it slow. And for those of you that do hurt and bleed, I promise that's the worst. Sex will get better, and you will get better at it, which, believe it or not, really does make a difference as to whether or not it feels good. Conversely, though, if it doesn't feel right, you shouldn't go ahead with it.

As for you, Mr. Big Athletic Man, you just need to be sure she feels relaxed and trusts you. A lot of foreplay will help, as will a LOT of lube (not flavored, just regular water-soluble KY or something like it), and take it slow. Keep open the communication lines, so if she doesn't want to continue she can let you know. If she's the romantic type, candles and a little wine and a soft bed will go far. Don't be afraid to go all out! If you're really concerned about her first time being memorable, make it memorable. The thing about sex for girls is that orgasm is not always achieved, but that doesn't mean it wasn't enjoyable. A lot of the time, just being that close and intimate with a person you care deeply for can make it worthwhile.

If anyone has sex-related questions, I highly recommend the book, The Guide to Getting It On from Goofy Foot Press. It's regarded as one of the best 'sex manuals' around, but it looks at it from anything but a medical point of view.

When your hymen is broken you do bleed, and spotting for a couple of days after is common. There is also a chance of some tenderness for the next week or so. Nothing is wrong with you, if you keep bleeding for an excessive amount of time and you are concerned, talk to your doctor.

This can happen sometimes. Everyone is different. Some don't bleed at all and some bleed a lot. It should stop within a few days. Some times it can go on longer than that. One of my friends bled for about two weeks. If it doesn't, you might want to thing about going to an OBGNY. Even if it has stopped, you still should think about going anyway, in my opinion all girls that are sexually active should go and get checked out every now and then.

Hello,

i am Dr Rosswell,
i have read your posts about bleeding after breakage of the hymen of up to 18hours however this is nothing to be concerned about in the slighest, the hymen must be broken at some point and the amount bled or how long it sustains bleeding differs from person to person. If there is a constant large flow of blood you must consult your gp. However when the hymen is broken it bleeds a fair bit and regardless of when you do it chances are is that it will bleed for a certain amount of time (1 week-4weeks) or maybe less or maybe more.
just re-assure yourself that what your going through is perfectly natural and it happens to 99% of women.

For any further help, dont hesistate to message me.

hii
i had sex once with penetration but there was no blood now i do that my self for many years. how to know if it broken or not? and if so what should i do?
please i need the answer as soon as possible as am getting married soon and that is very important.

whell, i need some help.
i will soon have my first sex with my boyfriend and i am scared. but i really want to do it...i think i am ready for it but my only fear is will it hurt. breaking the hymen i mean. i tried once to break my hymen but i think i didnt because i couldnt get my fingers in my vagina. its like something was over it and i couldnt get in.
i want this, but i think i will be too scared, cause im just like that. what should i do?? how can i stop the fear and just relax?

someone please help me...
tnx %-)

man , first for the muscular Romeo, just play around , get her very wet. Use fingers,one then two and so on. It worked for me. i only spotted,either way its a scary thing to see ur panties with blood. Blood is nto always something u wanna see after pleasure. just try and make it as confortable as you can,lube,talk to her while ..action,. stop and she will want to continue. Trust me,she wants to too, and pain just got to suck it up for a while,its worth it. :-D

I would go see a gynecologist. If you're not sure what is wrong, it is better to be safe than sorry.

kieran wrote:

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I had sex for the first time yesterday. When he finally pulled out he told me I was bleeding a little so he stopped. When I got home, there was blood all over my panties and I thought I started my period. But the next morning the bleeding stopped. So then I thought my cherry popped. But it still bleeds a little every now and then for the past 18 hours, but not as it should when you are on your period. What is wrong with me? PLEASE HELP !

same question, someone answer thissssssssssssss please!

has anyone got an answer to this yet???? i have the same problem although its the 4th time ive had sex and i was waiting for a period-- there was lots of blood and so i thought i started but this morning there was no blood on my pad... please reply:(

Actually u all have lost ur hymens which mean u'll r no more a virgin!

that's is just were you had sex the first time.. i bleed on and off for the first few days and that is completely normal.. i would worry to much

its ok you can go to the doctor your mom dont have to be in the room and you tell the doctor not to talk to your mom so go to the doctoer because thats not nouml

-the bleeding is normal-
i had a problem where my boyfriend fingered me and when i went home i had blood on my panties
i thoguht i had started my period as well but then the blood stopped in the morning
but every now and then it started to only bleed a tiny bit... i have no clue when it will stop or if it will ever stop
but i do know that this is a result of my hymen breaking

and for you girls out there who are embarassed to say that it happened from masterbation or that someone did that to you..
you can just say that your tampon did it or you were riding your bike or if you play rough sports
all those things are common in the result of your hymen breaking

Go see your doctor to get some valuable answers.

so much young ignorance. first off. Have sex already. second, why would your boyfriend care that you're a virgin or not. why do you? anyways. premature ejaculate is dead semen for lubrication. no pregnancy issues. but if He came in you. You should go to a doctor. to break your Hymen, fingering generally doesn't work. sex is the best solution.