im a man i dont mind if my wife coz every girl are virgin so its normal o yh dont use a vibrater wen u have sex den brake it for health and safty
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I also recently lost my virginity. It bled quite a bit and let up within 24 hours. After about 48 hours I tried having sex again and it bled just as much as before and again let up within about 24 hours. Do I have to wait a certain amount of time to let the tissue heal up? How many times do I have to have sex before it stops bleeding?
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Guest wrote:
mee too iam worried :( does anbody know how to just get it over with ? :?
:cry: i'm scared of breaking my hymens!!!!!!
mee too iam worried :( does anbody know how to just get it over with ? :?
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You shouldn't be scared. It's really not much of a big deal! Just relax when the time comes :-)
ON that note, I'm 17....my bf fingered me a couple of days ago....it never used to hurt but it really hurt me the other day and then suddenly he said 'you're bleeding' and he had blood over his fingers. When I cleaned myself up, I didn't have much blood on my underpants or when I wiped. I know people say some girls don't bleed at all but is it possible it didn't entirely break? We had sex afterwards though (not full on though because it hurt too much and it was my first time) and I haven't had any blood since....although I'm really aching up there!! It feels almost bruised...
Just double checking that this is all normal? The aching and the not much blood?
ON that note, I'm 17....my bf fingered me a couple of days ago....it never used to hurt but it really hurt me the other day and then suddenly he said 'you're bleeding' and he had blood over his fingers. When I cleaned myself up, I didn't have much blood on my underpants or when I wiped. I know people say some girls don't bleed at all but is it possible it didn't entirely break? We had sex afterwards though (not full on though because it hurt too much and it was my first time) and I haven't had any blood since....although I'm really aching up there!! It feels almost bruised...
Just double checking that this is all normal? The aching and the not much blood?
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This can tend to happen after your first time having sex. Yes you probably have rupture your hymen. It does not need to be fixed or anything many girls have to go through this pain after the first time. Don't fret just let things work themselves out.
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guys just want to have sex, stop worrying about the hymen. do you think they'll stop if you don't start bleeding and writing in agony during sex?
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I’m sorry to hear about your experiences with bleeding during sex. It can feel scary and, yes, sometimes embarrassing for some women to notice, especially when they have no idea why it’s happening to them. That said, vaginal bleeding is nothing you need to feel bad or embarrassed about, as bodies are quirky sometimes – and, for all their oddities – they are often very good at letting us know when something may be wrong and needs to be checked out by a healthcare provider. In my opinion, vaginal bleeding is always worth mentioning to one’s healthcare provider even though it’s not always a sign of a serious medical condition.
Although many women will notice small amounts of blood after sexual intercourse (this is often more easily noticed when one pees after sex or, the next day, in noticing small amounts of blood on one’s underwear), it is less common to notice more moderate or larger amounts of blood loss during sex itself. Here are some common causes of bleeding during or after intercourse… as well as, in some cases, what you can do about it.
Small amounts of bleeding noticed after intercourse may be caused by small vaginal tears (sometimes called “micro-tears”) in the vaginal wall or even on the vulva (the outside parts of a woman’s genitals). These often heal within 1-3 days after sex and may more easily heal if you try not to further aggravate these tears with more sex, masturbation, tampon use or other types of vaginal penetration (such as fingering). When a woman returns to sex, she and her partner might consider using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant to reduce friction and thus reduce the risk of more tearing which would – you guessed it – possibly result in more bleeding after sex.
Bleeding during or after sex can also be a sign of a sexually transmissible infection (STI) that may have caused irritation to or inflammation of a woman’s reproductive organs, such as her cervix and uterus. Often, however, STI-related bleeding also shows up as vaginal bleeding or discharge even on days when a woman is not having any sex at all. If a woman thinks there is any possible chance at all that she may have an STI, she should check in with her healthcare provider for STI testing and possible treatment. Some infections, such as chlamydia, can result in what’s called a “friable cervix” which is a cervix that is prone to bleeding (there are other causes of a friable cervix, too, and vaginal bleeding should always be checked out by a healthcare provider).
Although many women will notice small amounts of blood after sexual intercourse (this is often more easily noticed when one pees after sex or, the next day, in noticing small amounts of blood on one’s underwear), it is less common to notice more moderate or larger amounts of blood loss during sex itself. Here are some common causes of bleeding during or after intercourse… as well as, in some cases, what you can do about it.
Small amounts of bleeding noticed after intercourse may be caused by small vaginal tears (sometimes called “micro-tears”) in the vaginal wall or even on the vulva (the outside parts of a woman’s genitals). These often heal within 1-3 days after sex and may more easily heal if you try not to further aggravate these tears with more sex, masturbation, tampon use or other types of vaginal penetration (such as fingering). When a woman returns to sex, she and her partner might consider using a water-based or silicone-based lubricant to reduce friction and thus reduce the risk of more tearing which would – you guessed it – possibly result in more bleeding after sex.
Bleeding during or after sex can also be a sign of a sexually transmissible infection (STI) that may have caused irritation to or inflammation of a woman’s reproductive organs, such as her cervix and uterus. Often, however, STI-related bleeding also shows up as vaginal bleeding or discharge even on days when a woman is not having any sex at all. If a woman thinks there is any possible chance at all that she may have an STI, she should check in with her healthcare provider for STI testing and possible treatment. Some infections, such as chlamydia, can result in what’s called a “friable cervix” which is a cervix that is prone to bleeding (there are other causes of a friable cervix, too, and vaginal bleeding should always be checked out by a healthcare provider).
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I am a virgin but I have been fingered before. But a couple days ago, my boyfriend was fingering me (it didnt seem like it was more then before though) and i started to bleed. It didn't hurt so I assumed that i had gotten my period. But the bleeding didn't continue after i took my shower (after he left). The bleeding was not a little or slow flow but a fast, fluent, and short flow. So i have been trying to do research about whether or not my hymen is broken or not. I don't know how to tell exactly. Any tips? Thanks! =]
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S0 EARLiER THiS WEEK, ME & MY BF HAD SEX && WHEN HE PULLED 0UT i N0TiCED THERE WAS BL00D ALL 0N HiS PENiS. i KNEW 4 SURE iT WASN'T THAT TiME 0F THE M0NTH; i C0NTiNUED T0 SP0T F0R AB0UT 2 DAYz AFTER. i'VE BEEN D0iN AL0T 0F RESEARCH DUE 2 THE FACT THAT i HAVE NEVER EXPERiENCED THiS BEF0RE. i L0ST MY ViRGiNiTY 4 YRz AG0 & HAD A BABY A LiTTLE 0VER A YR AG0, S0 WHAT THE HELL iS MY HYMEN STiLL D0iNG? D0 i NEED 2 SEEK MEDiCAL ATTENTi0N 0R AM i 0VER REACTiNG? S0MEB0DY HELLLLPPP
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S0 EARLiER THiS WEEK, ME & MY BF HAD SEX && WHEN HE PULLED 0UT i N0TiCED THERE WAS BL00D ALL 0N HiS PENiS. i KNEW 4 SURE iT WASN'T THAT TiME 0F THE M0NTH; i C0NTiNUED T0 SP0T F0R AB0UT 2 DAYz AFTER. i'VE BEEN D0iN AL0T 0F RESEARCH DUE 2 THE FACT THAT i HAVE NEVER EXPERiENCED THiS BEF0RE. i L0ST MY ViRGiNiTY 4 YRz AG0 & HAD A BABY A LiTTLE 0VER A YR AG0, S0 WHAT THE HELL iS MY HYMEN STiLL D0iNG THERE? D0 i NEED 2 SEEK MEDiCAL ATTENTi0N 0R AM i 0VER REACTiNG? S0MEB0DY HELLLLPPP
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kieran wrote:
It's possible you tore yourself open a little. It sounds scary, but it's not completely uncommon. There is always a bit of tearing when you lose your virginity, and a lot when you give birth. Moving around and stuff can reopen the tear enough to make you bleed. However, it's always smart to head to the doctors office if you're bleeding abnormally down there. If you're old enough to have sex, but are still worried about your parents knowing about you having sex.. the gyno has to legally keep your visit a secret.
It's better you find out nothing is wrong than to have a serious issue and be afraid of getting it fixed.
Guest wrote:
Guest wrote:
I had sex for the first time yesterday. When he finally pulled out he told me I was bleeding a little so he stopped. When I got home, there was blood all over my panties and I thought I started my period. But the next morning the bleeding stopped. So then I thought my cherry popped. But it still bleeds a little every now and then for the past 18 hours, but not as it should when you are on your period. What is wrong with me? PLEASE HELP !
same question, someone answer thissssssssssssss please!
does anyone have a ansa to this yet?? i have this problem and im panicking and altho this is the 4th time ive had sex and loads of blood came out-- ive been waitin for my period bu this morning no blood was on my pad and i dont no where that blood came from????
It's possible you tore yourself open a little. It sounds scary, but it's not completely uncommon. There is always a bit of tearing when you lose your virginity, and a lot when you give birth. Moving around and stuff can reopen the tear enough to make you bleed. However, it's always smart to head to the doctors office if you're bleeding abnormally down there. If you're old enough to have sex, but are still worried about your parents knowing about you having sex.. the gyno has to legally keep your visit a secret.
It's better you find out nothing is wrong than to have a serious issue and be afraid of getting it fixed.
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ok i have a problem....i was on my period and you know how it sometimes stops and comes back? well that's not the case...but after i thought it stopped i was with my boyfriend and he fingered me im not sure but he told me it was 3 fingers and im a virgin but after that happened and i went home i checked and there was blood...does that mean my hymen is broken or was it my period coming back?? please help me :/
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kieran wrote:
it may very well be both cases are true. does this mean you are abnormal? no. not at all. I would though, in all honesty with the imconsistent bleednig, get to a gyno. doubt you are diseased or prego but something may have been torn inside and you may want to wait a bit before going that far again. but all in all, as I am not a professional, you should get checked to prevent infection.. no not infestation, or disease.. INFECTION from bacteria. if all turns out to be clear, you can go back to shagging.
Guest wrote:
Guest wrote:
I had sex for the first time yesterday. When he finally pulled out he told me I was bleeding a little so he stopped. When I got home, there was blood all over my panties and I thought I started my period. But the next morning the bleeding stopped. So then I thought my cherry popped. But it still bleeds a little every now and then for the past 18 hours, but not as it should when you are on your period. What is wrong with me? PLEASE HELP !
same question, someone answer thissssssssssssss please!
does anyone have a ansa to this yet?? i have this problem and im panicking and altho this is the 4th time ive had sex and loads of blood came out-- ive been waitin for my period bu this morning no blood was on my pad and i dont no where that blood came from????
it may very well be both cases are true. does this mean you are abnormal? no. not at all. I would though, in all honesty with the imconsistent bleednig, get to a gyno. doubt you are diseased or prego but something may have been torn inside and you may want to wait a bit before going that far again. but all in all, as I am not a professional, you should get checked to prevent infection.. no not infestation, or disease.. INFECTION from bacteria. if all turns out to be clear, you can go back to shagging.
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:$ i wanted to have sex but my vagina is so small i dint want to because i didnt want to bleed. And plus it was hurting when he was trying to put it in, and he said it just hurts because it opening more but i dont know. o.O o.O
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it is normal to hav the pain and also to bleed on and off bcz ur hymen iz broke partially and to brake fully u hav to finger,vibrate, or hav sex again to brake it. plz note that the pain will be exscrutiating...
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