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Okay, so I get these things all the time. Usually on my labia majora and usually right around the time I get my period. They tend to be about pea sized and blend in with the skin in the area except for a small dot in the center. Though I have had a few that got REALLY big and red.
I was completely mortified by the first one, but I asked my mom about it. She said that the things are basically big pimples/blisters/boils, that can be brought on by heat/hormones/stress. Hence the itchy soreness. They are totally normal and won't kill you. Tons of women get them, but most are too shy to talk about it, hence all the fear and confusion.
I recently got one on my labia minora, and boy did that hurt!
If you do get one, don't go poking at it, and DON'T pinch or squeeze it. First off, it hurts like the dickens, second, your hands are covered in germs, you don't want to go giving yourself an infection, and making the thing worse. Your body will get rid of it on it's own in a few days. A week tops. Soaking in a warm bath or pressing a hot rag to it for a few minutes a day can help make them shrink or burst on their own.
The best way to keep from getting them in the first place is to wear breathable COTTON undies and keep your area as COOL and DRY as possible.
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Lots of personal, icky details there but it's a personal, icky thread haha. Thank you again.
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I've read nearly all of these posts.. even from the very first original question. *Breathes a sigh of relief*. Like almost all of you, I've been tested for STDS, I'm clean. I've been with 1 partner for over 5 years now. My first "pimple" happened when I was 16 almost 17. I remember explicitly because I asked my mother to take me to a gynecologist, being too embarrassed to tell her why. Her first question was of course "Why, have you started being sexually active?" I'll admit to you and tell you that I lied. I told her that I was still a virgin. I wasn't. I had sex twice with my boyfriend who was also a virgin months prior to this embarrassing pea sized uncomfortable pimple on my labia. I dropped the subject and just dealt with it.
Never experienced a single one, even in the most stressful part of my life of moving 1,800 miles away from home and family, alone. To being lied to, cheated on, and mentally abused by a guy who even threatened to commit suicide if I left him. Not once in those 6 years did I experience a lump. This was also the time in my life I was the most over weight.
The reason I'm here? I just popped one of these pimples. Simply Googled "blood pimple"? And this is where I ended up. For about 4 years now... (I'm 30 now btw) I've been randomly getting these blisters, pimples, cysts.. whatever. After my period, during, before, doesn't matter. I even just got off of a "stay-cation" so my stress level is minimum since for the past week my biggest worry was which chick flick I was going to watch next on netflix.
I've seen 2 gynos about them. One, a male who had little sympathy, told me it was because I shaved down there. Made sense. I stopped shaving. Still got the pimples. 2nd, a female, who was excited to hear about how well I was doing in my relationship, told me it had nothing to do with shaving (obviously, thanks Doc, I worked that one out on my own). She said they weren't much to worry about. Warm wash clothes, soaking, Epson salt etc etc were all good ways to relelieve them but still no solid answer.
A lot of posts said not to pop them yourself. Well, I do. I can't stand them! When one gets to the point of discomfort (usually a few days for me), and I can feel the skin is thin, (one gal here explained it as thin skin on a mushy grape, perfect description) I wash my hands, have a clean rag, and a warm damp rag too to clean thoroughly. I squeeze it. Sometimes it's just blood, sometimes there's some puss, but almost always it's a pop sensation and startling. They're the most uncomfortable and stubborn on the labia. I've even had a couple on the edge of my butt crack. One thing for sure, when I pop one and after cleaning the area, it's practically gone and healed by the time I wake up the next day. I'd say I get one every other week to a month but it's extremely random.
Moral of this story: I'm still embarrassed. If I'm wanting to be sexual with my partner then I always make sure I don't have one first. I'd be mortified if he found one while going down on me...
P.S. I'm OCD about being hygienic. So being dirty down there is not the issue. I have sensitive skin. I use hyper allergenic body wash to avoid breakout of psoriasis. I use tampons. I'm not on birth control but they happened when I was on birth control two years ago as well. I've never had children. I sleep sometimes nude, sometimes with underwear, depends on my mood. I wear silky and cotton underwear. I'm still over weight but not as badly. And again -I AM STD FREE- was tested a few months ago.
Sorry for this being so long, you all inspired me to share my story. ♡ Oh! And for the elderly lady (in her 60s) that used this emote: o.O You. Are. Awesome.
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These lumps are called sebaceous cysts and are often the result of an infected hair follicle. With more and more women choosing French or Brazilian bikini waxes, more pubic hair is removed giving us a higher risk of ingrown hairs and cysts. The most important thing to know is – NEVER squeeze a sebaceous cyst. Since the cyst typically does not have a head, there is no where for the puss or fluids to go, except for the cyst to expand, getting bigger and more infected as it spreads further into your skin.
Instead, you want to apply moist heat to the area which will eventually cause the cyst to burst on its own. A hot compress is a great way to do this. You can use a clean moist rag, but it often loses heat too quickly. If you do not have a hot compress a great method is to pour some hot water into a clean mug and put a clean spoon it for 10 seconds. Remove the spoon,
wipe off the water and test it by applying the back of the spoon to your inner forearm. Make sure it is not scalding or too hot to the skin on your arm. If it is, it will be way too hot for your delicate vulva skin. Wait until you can press the spoon against your inner forearm comfortably. Then place the back of the spoon on the skin over the cyst. Apply slight pressure and leave it there until it the spoon cools. If you keep the mug covered to keep the water warm, you can repeat this procedure over and over again. You may have to heat the water up again at some point, but do not exceed 20 minutes in one sitting. The cyst will either burst while you are doing it or later in the day or night. You can try this a few times a day or a few days in a row. Sometimes the cyst will come to the surface as a head and then you can apply gentle pressure on the sides of the head, pressing downward against the skin, not squeezing. If puss, clear fluid or pinkish blood, come out, keep applying gentle pressure until the blood turns a dark red, then stop . If nothing comes out, stop immediately. Remember do not squeeze.
If the lump is hard, does not move and does not go away within a two weeks, consult with your doctor. Some sebaceous cysts require lancing by a professional, where they make a tiny slit and remove the contents of the cyst. NEVER EVER attempt to lance your own cyst, stick a pin in it, or squeeze it.
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These lumps are called sebaceous cysts and are often the result of an infected hair follicle. With more and more women choosing French or Brazilian bikini waxes, more pubic hair is removed giving us a higher risk of ingrown hairs and cysts. The most important thing to know is – NEVER squeeze a sebaceous cyst. Since the cyst typically does not have a head, there is no where for the puss or fluids to go, except for the cyst to expand, getting bigger and more infected as it spreads further into your skin.
Instead, you want to apply moist heat to the area which will eventually cause the cyst to burst on its own. A hot compress is a great way to do this. You can use a clean moist rag, but it often loses heat too quickly. If you do not have a hot compress a great method is to pour some hot water into a clean mug and put a clean spoon it for 10 seconds. Remove the spoon,
wipe off the water and test it by applying the back of the spoon to your inner forearm. Make sure it is not scalding or too hot to the skin on your arm. If it is, it will be way too hot for your delicate vulva skin. Wait until you can press the spoon against your inner forearm comfortably. Then place the back of the spoon on the skin over the cyst. Apply slight pressure and leave it there until it the spoon cools. If you keep the mug covered to keep the water warm, you can repeat this procedure over and over again. You may have to heat the water up again at some point, but do not exceed 20 minutes in one sitting. The cyst will either burst while you are doing it or later in the day or night. You can try this a few times a day or a few days in a row. Sometimes the cyst will come to the surface as a head and then you can apply gentle pressure on the sides of the head, pressing downward against the skin, not squeezing. If puss, clear fluid or pinkish blood, come out, keep applying gentle pressure until the blood turns a dark red, then stop . If nothing comes out, stop immediately. Remember do not squeeze.
If the lump is hard, does not move and does not go away within a two weeks, consult with your doctor. Some sebaceous cysts require lancing by a professional, where they make a tiny slit and remove the contents of the cyst. NEVER EVER attempt to lance your own cyst, stick a pin in it, or squeeze it.
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Anyway to summarise I'm so pleased I'm not alone and wish things like this were talked about more in life cause then maybe all of us wouldn't panic so much in these situations!!!
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