Anyways, I'm going be going in for my first OB-GYN exam and I am really nervous about this wednesday. I'm going to be seeing a midwife that knows my mom, and the thing is my mom doesn't know I've already had sex or that I masterbate. Is it still possible that my parents will find out that I've had sex and that I masterbate even though I'm 22? I've been looking all over the place for any ideas if anyone has any idea if the Doctor & Patient confidentiality ethics would apply to my situation. Cause I'm unsure how how to react to this situation. Also, I've only been with one person whom I was dating for 4 1/2 years and when ever we had sex it was always with a condom. Does anyone have any ideas of what I should expect from the midwife that is doing my exam this wednesday?? Sorry I'm absolutely nervous and I'm just so unsure about this whole situation now. :'(
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Hi Angel! First of all ALL mammals masturbate, it is a healthy normal part of life! 2nd she has the same exact ethics as any other profession, your file is completely confidential! She will do a pelvic exam, and a pap test - it's SO great!! 8-| ;-) She will insert a Speculum into your vagina and gently open it to see into your cervix, then while that is open, she will insert a cotton swab and swab your cervix and vagina! This shows any infection or questionable areas! She will do a breast exam and also check your ovaries, she will take a detailed history of your health and sexual health! I am 100% that at 22 she will NOT be surprised that you are not a virgin! As I'm sure your parents aren't either - due to your long rrelationship. So don't worry, she HAS to keep everything to herslef, also mention that you don't want her to tell your mother ANYTHING! It is not your moms business - unless you want to tell her! Good luck and health!
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