i broke my virginity and im going to have an arranged marriage and if they find out im not a virgin it will be a big issue.my friend showed me a product which would fake virginity.its an artificial hymen which u can insert in the vagina.please advice me if its safe to use it,if not than what else can i do.
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Wow. I never heard of a product that you stick up there to make a fake hymen. Has your friend tried it before? or did she just hear about it? You can have surgery to get another hymen made, but that is probably more
trouble than its worth. You have to be careful putting things in your vagina, because that is a very sensitive place.
Make up a story and stick to it. Cry and everything. Tell them that you
used a tampon and pushed it up too far and it broke your hymen. That happens to people all of the time. Whoever would be creating the major issue for you about the hymen not breaking needs to take a sex class or something, because there are many virgins that broke their hymen without having sex. Good luck with that.
trouble than its worth. You have to be careful putting things in your vagina, because that is a very sensitive place.
Make up a story and stick to it. Cry and everything. Tell them that you
used a tampon and pushed it up too far and it broke your hymen. That happens to people all of the time. Whoever would be creating the major issue for you about the hymen not breaking needs to take a sex class or something, because there are many virgins that broke their hymen without having sex. Good luck with that.
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What's done is done , but don't try to fake the tampon story because any one with even a pinch of medicinal knowledge in their system will know that a tampon can hardly be the culprit !
So either stick to the truth or put your imagination to overdrive !
Good luck !
So either stick to the truth or put your imagination to overdrive !
Good luck !
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Hymen doesn't only break from having sex it can happen while exercising, stretching, riding your bike etc... don't worry about it.
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I new very well about this fake hymen. It is safe to use. And it is also clinically approved. So don't worry to use it. You just have to stick it in your vagina , it will feel little tight and will be broken on first time sex and fack blood will come out. Don't worry only few drops will come out to prove your vergenity.
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Hello'
Ladies listen. Sex should not be that painful. If it is there may be another problem. To avoid muscles being too tight because of being anxious,
1.Make sure your body is physically ready, if you are too young it is just not physically possible without being excruciating.
2. Always use protection. A lubricated condom will also make penetration easier.
3. Make sure you are choosing someone safe, IE not a one night stand.
4. Relax, take your time.
5. Always start with foreplay, this helps get the "juices flowing".
6. Use plenty of lubrication. Any woman virgin of not who isn't well lubricated, penetration is painful.
7. Instead of the missionary position, man on top, try the woman on top so she can control the ease of penetration.
8. Remember to enjoy yourself, this should not be a stressful time. If the act is overwhelming tell the person your with.
Just a bit of information: We all know that the penis gets hard. There are instances when a man is extremely aroused, like the idea of a virgin whether he is or not, the penis gets harder than normal, to where the skin on the outside hardly moves. This in it's self can be painful to any woman.
(I have 3 children, trust me, when my DH is like this it can hurt if things aren't well lubricated and ready)
Hope this helps all of you.
If you have any questions or comments feel free to leave a comment.
Ladies listen. Sex should not be that painful. If it is there may be another problem. To avoid muscles being too tight because of being anxious,
1.Make sure your body is physically ready, if you are too young it is just not physically possible without being excruciating.
2. Always use protection. A lubricated condom will also make penetration easier.
3. Make sure you are choosing someone safe, IE not a one night stand.
4. Relax, take your time.
5. Always start with foreplay, this helps get the "juices flowing".
6. Use plenty of lubrication. Any woman virgin of not who isn't well lubricated, penetration is painful.
7. Instead of the missionary position, man on top, try the woman on top so she can control the ease of penetration.
8. Remember to enjoy yourself, this should not be a stressful time. If the act is overwhelming tell the person your with.
Just a bit of information: We all know that the penis gets hard. There are instances when a man is extremely aroused, like the idea of a virgin whether he is or not, the penis gets harder than normal, to where the skin on the outside hardly moves. This in it's self can be painful to any woman.
(I have 3 children, trust me, when my DH is like this it can hurt if things aren't well lubricated and ready)
Hope this helps all of you.
If you have any questions or comments feel free to leave a comment.
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I've heard of that product. It claims to be safe. If you have to appear to be a virgin then I would go the artificial hymen route. It's easier than going to the plastic surgeon to have your hymen repaired and a lot less expensive too. For about 30 or more dollars it seems to be a great solution!
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It is safe and easy to use but try it b4 your big night :-D . make sure u buy the amirican one, a little expensive but worth it . u can find it in us or canada.good luck
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artificial hymen is safe to use, and easy, fo girl who have a problem because of that, cheap and easy way to restore your life, but actually the better way is to be honest and tell your partner the reality, a little problem in beganing better than lie!
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I can't beleive it
So worried about not being a virgin that you would revert to latex.
What a way start to a marriage
Ok , so yer not a virgin
10 to 1 he isn't either
this worried me so much I started thinking of an alternative :
just wait until the last day of your period and let him finger you
thrust once and tell him he's such a brute
"but we'll keep it a secret forever"
I'd fall for it myself and I just thought it
So worried about not being a virgin that you would revert to latex.
What a way start to a marriage
Ok , so yer not a virgin
10 to 1 he isn't either
this worried me so much I started thinking of an alternative :
just wait until the last day of your period and let him finger you
thrust once and tell him he's such a brute
"but we'll keep it a secret forever"
I'd fall for it myself and I just thought it
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Do you people realize that she's in an arranged marriage in a country where women likely have very few rights? "Explaining" that she's still a virgin to her husband isn't going to matter as women are likely perceived as liars, which will probably lead to an annulled marriage and an honor killing of this poor woman.
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These are some of the most horribly ill-informed responses I can imagine. She is clearly from a conservative culture, to expect her husband to just "understand" is unrealistic. To expect her to become a martyr for women's reproductive rights is unfair to her. She was asking a very simple question which you all thought should be ignored to impose your morality on her. (Ironically, you think you are being liberal by saying it is "OK" to have broken your hymen through premarital sex or otherwise, but you are actually NOT being liberal because you are intolerant of her traditionalist culture and the position in which it puts her. Only one person even pointed out her original statement that this is an arranged marriage. If she "comes clean", she is tainted goods. Unmarriable.)
To the questioner:
Artificial hymens are perfectly safe and effective. I am sorry you are in this uncomfortable position, and while I disagree with your culture's moralistic view of hymens (which I don't believe are an appropriate sign of purity since so many virgins have lost their hymens), I encourage you to use an artificial hymen IF YOU CHOOSE. I hope you are happy with your arranged marriage (while I personally oppose them, I respect your culture and belief systems, so long as you are WILLINGLY entering into this arranged marriage).
To the questioner:
Artificial hymens are perfectly safe and effective. I am sorry you are in this uncomfortable position, and while I disagree with your culture's moralistic view of hymens (which I don't believe are an appropriate sign of purity since so many virgins have lost their hymens), I encourage you to use an artificial hymen IF YOU CHOOSE. I hope you are happy with your arranged marriage (while I personally oppose them, I respect your culture and belief systems, so long as you are WILLINGLY entering into this arranged marriage).
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well if it gana be big issue for u better go for surgery (u never know some men are demanding that their women to be chiked by doctors before the big night ) and plus being exp r cheap is nothing if it garantee u peacfull life !!
P.S being honest in some comunties that consider a woman being virgin never works unfortunittly !!!!! :'( good luck
P.S being honest in some comunties that consider a woman being virgin never works unfortunittly !!!!! :'( good luck
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