Can only masturbate/ejaculate in a weird way

Guest over a year ago

Look up Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome, you need to start doing it the right way. It'll be tough, but avoid doing what you do at all cost. You'll get it eventually. I've had this issue as well, best of luck to you

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helper over a year ago

i do the same thing im 14 and i stared mastubating like tht when i was 12 and ive tried the other way but i cant do it either but our way gives us premature ejaculation soo now we both need to stop cause its not good but i cant stop im like addicted i masturbate everyday.

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anony over a year ago

hey buddy,..dis s sometn exactly i been facing...n have been troubling since long...i face trouble when m out 4 vacations n i can't get my desires fulfilled when other male jus do t in normal ways...i really wanna get over dis n start normal...seriously need help...

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jerbrent133486 over a year ago

I Think the problem is stimulating your penis the same way you do when lying down. The most sensitive spot is on the back of the head of your penis.If you do it laying down,you are applying the weight of your body against it. So stroking it is not going to apply the same presure. I use a pretty firm grip, but there are other areas that can help aouse you. Try rubbing the area just under your balls,applying pressure as you move your finger. Also your prostate is very sensitive to pleasure. Their is a movie where they are trying to recover a video before his girlfriend gets it. They stop at a sperm bank,because they need money. The blond goofy guy,He's in a lot of these type movies tells the nurse he cant perform.She says there is another way to do it. She bends him over the table and uses her finger to massage his prostate.He thinks it is the greatest thing ever. So using other places while you stroke usually speeds the process along. I pull on my scrotum,but mine hangs down.When masturbating is the only way you get off,you get use to that stimulation, having some one else(your girl) wrapping her hand around it,feels great because she holds it differently and stimulates other areas that your grip misses.You can also get toys, that act as a vagina,such as flesh lite there are many.This will apply pressure all around your penis,and feel like you are doing your girl.

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Guest over a year ago

Masturbation by "humping", instead of by hand, is normal and not uncommon and can feel better than the hand. Your penis and f--cking won't be affected. There is something about the powerful hip thrusts that can't be duplicated by hand motions. Btw you may have trouble getting off from a simple bj too unless she lets you thrust. I'm an older guy with lots of experience and I can do either way but humping is way better feeling.

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Roland23294611 over a year ago

Hi Guest:

I think that most guys with intact foreskins move the foreskin up and down. Some pull it back behind the head and some keep it forward over the head. I think that keeping it forward over the head while stroking it back and forth works best.

I think that, when you have intercourse for the first tme, you won't have any problem ejaculating.

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Guest over a year ago

as this is an old thread it's probably too late. but no-one should worry about not getting a hard on or not being able to ejaculate when you first have sex with your girlfriend. You will. In fact, you will probably cum too soon! sex is nothing like masturbation. it's much much much more intense. you'll be ok.

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MessageFromMichael300621 over a year ago

What you're doing is called prone masturbation. It's bad for you. Masturbating prone causes sexual dysfunctions in males.

You can easily give up prone masturbation and learn to masturbate conventionally. I did it after many years of masturbating prone. Just take a week off from masturbating and intercourse. At the end of that week, your penis will be sensitive enough that you can masturbate by hand. Then promise to give up prone masturbation forever and you will notice your erections are better within weeks, and you will be able to do it wherever you want.

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Guest over a year ago

I have the same problem. I've had sex over 60 times with 11 different girls and I am only 17. But I have never ejaculated during sexual intercourse only during this weird technique I grown accustom to. How do I fix it?

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Guest over a year ago

Hey I masturebate in a wierd way too I figured this way out when I was about 5 years old I used to lie on a carpet and frust my hip back and forth and now I'm 14. And still do this but it has became a habit so I just do it randomly I've tried to masturebate the normal way but never worked only a erection but once in the shower I tried it and i orgasmed and felt really good but don't know if I ejaculated.

Plz does anyone do this?

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rickburker over a year ago

Thank god I'm not the only one!

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Guest over a year ago

I've always masturbated by rubbing my **** against the bed/pillows and couldn't ejaculate using my hands.
When I was 16,I had a sex with a girl for the first time I'm 28 now,but I couldn't ***.It worried me a lot for the future and I actually thought using hand is quite similar as penetrating the vagina.Although I've tried using hand in the past never worked,but one day I was watching **** and used my hand it took a while but eventually I cummed that was a breakthrough and after some day,went to brothel and had sex with a girl i cummed (was the happiest feeling)...U have to use hand and keep trying or else forget about wanking u can't *** while having sex.
Now,I can masturbate using hand,still rubbing my penis which I do 99% than using me hands and I am good in bed now.All u need is just one that go.
My experience cheers

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Guest over a year ago

Man i have the same exact problem. I startes same age and i gotta girl friend for the past 9 months but whenever she jerks me i CANT cum. I get an erection and i can pre-ejaculate. And weve had intercourse n oral and she does it perfectly, feels amazing. I still cannot cum idk what the deal is

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Guest over a year ago

I also have a weird way to ejaculate. Im 18 now and I think I started it when I was 10 or below. What I do is just squeeze my penis with my thighs until I ejaculate for 3-5 mins. Is there any problem on how I ejaculate?

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KOOLADE52 over a year ago

i masturbate the same way

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