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Hello. I'm 20 year old female and I'm interested to find out some facts about oral sex. You see, about a week ago my boyfriend suggested me oral sex.
At that moment I refused it and told him that it was disgusting thing to suggest. But, I must admit that I was thinking about this earlier because it seams unfair that he gives me oral pleasure and gets none in return.
So, I really want to give him that pleasure but even the idea that I would be putting his penis in my mouth is making me sick. Please give me some advices on this mater.

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I know how you are feeling right now because a lot of woman felt the same. Oral sex, if you really think about it, is probably the most disgusting form of pleasure man has ever conceived but females should think of it like that.
Many men and women engage in oral sex, and find it one of the most pleasurable of sexual activities. I have read somewhere that, beside the fact that it's pretty natural, it has been done for ages and ages all around the world. Of course that first few times it could be reluctant but I believe that all this is psychological effect.
I suggest you to talk about this with our boyfriend again and maybe oral sex could be a very intense and intimate experience, even for you.
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Printz has all the right answers, but maybe no solution for you. Some people like giving/getting oral sex better than anything else, but it's not for everybody. You need to understand why it is disgusting to you. Is it an issue of smell or taste? Hygiene, cleanliness? If that is it, is it based on a real perception of his actual cleanliness, or just on a mental image in your mind?
If you address issues like these, you may be able to overcome your repulsion of oral sex. Or maybe not. Maybe it's just not for you. If that seems to be the case, you must next ask how important your relationship with this guy is, because he is not making an unreasonable demand.
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wtf?? are you all lesbians?? its a natural body part.. and probably cleaner than ur bfs mouth.. get over it.. i dont like the taste of vaginal fluids too much either, but i'd still give oral to my fullest potential.. ur all just afraid..
its insane that sum1 wud but a tongue in theyr mouth, but not some cleaner body part.. and if its not cleaner.. expect infections..
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