cant get wet anymore

was.very.wet wrote:

i have been with my boyfriend for just over two years. when we first met he made me so wet and the first year of our relationship everything- including the sex was great...now though i just cant get wet and im worried he is going to leave me

i also feel really inferior to his other girlfriends he has had in the past. i keep thinking to myself (even during sex) i bet his other girlfriends could get wet- in fact i know that cos he told me he has never had this prob with ne one but me....i have really low self esteeme at the best of times but now i feel even worse about being me.

Well, you seem to have answered your own question.

You're having distracting thoughts during sex, which are taking you out of the mood. No wonder you're having difficulties getting as wet. It's a self-fulfilling prophesy.

There are lots of personal lubricants for sale at drug stores, pharmacies, Wal-Mart, and other outlets. You can buy a tube or bottle, and use that to supplement your lubrication. Many women find this superior to their own natural lube, and it can be a blessing for women near menopause as their hormones fluctuate.

Try some. He'll enjoy it and it just might turn you on also.
(I'd skip the one's with additional ingrediants to warm, cool, stimulate, or sting... they can be distracting. Just stick with a straight, water-based personal lubricant at first.)

And don't forget to use some protection. Every time!