Can't stimulate myself (female)

Guest over a year ago

Hi everyone,

I'm a 19-year old girl, and have had quite a few bed partners the last years. Also right now, I'm in a 2-years relationship where we have sex on a regular base.

However, i've never been able to pleasure myself, without the help of someone else (partner, FWB, anything). I looked up a lot of masturbation techniques, but it just seems that i can't seem to get in the right mood.

I tried to watch porn quite some times, but I never seemed to find the right video. Even if I find something extremely hot, I still don't get a way to pleasure myself into an orgasm (I do get wet from the video, however, but not from the masturbating act itself). I also tried sexual stories, which give me the same effect (wet, but it doesn't feel good).

I love to have sex with my current partner, but sometimes, I just want my body for myself. I find it so frustrating that I rely on someone else for my own pleasure. It's also the penetrating that makes me cum, and not the foreplay.

I would very much appreciate any help!

Gr.

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Guest over a year ago

What is fwb

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Guest over a year ago

i know the feeling so what you need to do is to make yourself ready for this pleasure. Candles in the room and soft music that you love and maybe a romantic film to watch. Have a bath with mineral salts and then pamper yourself and then begin and just feel your body all over, your brests and your legs and gradually work towards your lips of vagina and be gentle. see how it goes. if that is good then continue to the pleasure spot.

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Guest over a year ago

I'm gonna try that out, I hope that helps!
It takes a lot of time/effort though, but if it solves my problem, I'm willing to take that ;-)

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Guest over a year ago

let me know how it goes and give me any tips for my pleasure

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Guest over a year ago

Hi when i woke up this morning i found my mum was sitting on my bed and im sure she had been feeling me. Has anyone else had this happen and is so what did they do.

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Guest over a year ago

what do you mean by feeling you

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Guest over a year ago

in my vagina

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Guest over a year ago

so tell me what did you do?or say ?you must of been scared right how long this this this happen?

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Guest over a year ago

I was shocked but I didnt say anything coz I wasnt absolutly sure that she did but im almost certain that in my sleep i was having a sort of feeling down there. As i woke her hand was moving away quickly. I was quite wet around the outside and the lips were wet too. Im 14. How old are you.

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Guest over a year ago

i am 19 did you sart this topic ? did you enjoy it? it seems like you did

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Guest over a year ago

Yes i started this topic. I have always thought im Bi as i have had encounters with girls at school. Are you straight. Im not saying i didnt like the feeling but to wake up and maybe have your mum feeling you is strange. I have heard that other girls do let theeir mum do stuff. What do you think i should do, shall i say to her was she feeling me or just forget it. Are you in Englandrelief

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Guest over a year ago

im in the usa ,the reason i ask is you said you were 19 but then said you were 14 are you 19. i am 19i am straight if you dont like what your mother is doing to you then tell her, do you masterbate and do you like it? how do you do it

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Guest over a year ago

sorry i didnt start the post right from the beginning I started it re my mother. Im 14 Trouble is i dont know deffo if she was actually feeling my P----Y. Yes i masturbate lots but i prefer my step sister helping. Have you ever had a girl???

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Guest over a year ago

yes ive had several girls .since your are 14 i dont know if i should go into detial with you what is deffo remeber i live in the usa ,do you know where that is,maybe you can teach me some words you use in your country

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