Hello,
and yes, I know I still have some growing to do, bla-blah-bah
I'm 16 I'm mature and smart enough to know something's up
I'm not going to disregard I'm diagnosed with A boderline Anxiety disorder, but I don't think it has anything to do with the fact I'm worried about this.
for the past 3 years, I've done ALOT of growing, and I mean the works, I have alot of facial hair as I Type, infact, I should probobly shave when I'm done with this post, it's unsightly and it seems I constantly have to shave. I have so much underarm hair, it's emabrrasing, and Don't get me started on my pubes.
The problem is, I started puberty when I was 13 and I would know, It was the first time I saw sper for myself, so I knew i hit puberty, anyways, I digress. I've been 5 inches erect for the past 3 years, I'm 5' 11 tall, and I feel like my 5 in penis is throwing off the proportions of my overall stature, I'm Averagly built, no muscle tone but no extra weight, and I'm active enough to run a 4k on a regular day.
What I don't get, is if I haven't grown a centimeter since I was 13, why would I between now and when I'm 21? I guess I'm just a little worried about what my ex's have been telling me (yes, I am sexually active, I've had sex with 2 other partners and the other 3 have given my a handy or two.) and they've all said that I'm small for my age. I've done some experimenting... I should say. But, I've seen a few of my freind's Penises, and let me begin with the most concerning.
My friend Jack, he's 15, he's EXTREMLY well bulit, plays football, gets all the girls, etc. etc. he's 15, and he's 7in erect, and he teased me about, and hes one of the nicest guys I know. (time for some new frinds I'd say) and I'm worried that someone younger than I has even an inch above me. But then there's the other Freind, his name is Garrett, Him and I admittedly became a little curious and we played with each other, and while I was, I notice, he's 9 inches long erect, and he's only a year and a half older than me. Now, obviously these accounts don't really contribute to how my body should look, but mentally and emotionally, it's really getting to me to the point I'll stop masturbating because I'm not satisfied with myself.
I need some advice, I know I should wait and see what happens...
But I can't help it, I'm too worried about sexually pleasing the girls I date in the future
and just a forewarning, please use proper grammar and common sense, if your posts lack these, I won't hesitate to ignore them, I need the advice of someone who knows what they're talking about
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I am here to help you with this issue. First off you are not alone. There are numorous people who have confidance issues with their penis size. Is human nature..... let me start off by saying your penis size is avereage for an adult male erect penis. The avg size is 5-6in. Any one above that is actually larger than average. You are quite mature and are going through puberty fairly quickly. Do you have any chest or abdominal hair? And what size are your testeis? With that being said I still understand how you may feel less than average with your friend. I have had similar experiances to you when I was younger and even occaionally today. In high school I never showered because my flaccid penis was quite small. My best frien and I would get curious like most teenage boys do his penis was quite a bit buggger than mine erect and my other friend was also well endowed both erect and flaccid. So I compleatly understand your perdicament. The good news is that you are only 16 the penis can continue to grow until a person is in their early 20s. It is all regulated by genetics. There isn't anything you can to safly to try and increase the size of your penis. But I would measure your penis once a month both flaccid and erect and see if it gets bigger. Finally take what girls and other guys say with a grain of salt. Most guys say their penis is bigger than it really is. The only way to know a guys true size is to look at it next to a ruler. Girls also will vary from the truth. Some girls say their guy is small when he's actually average or above average and others say their guy is huge when he's average or below. I hope this helps some please let me know. Thank you
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Thank you for replying so quickly, I appriciate it alot.
Let me start of at saying yes, I have chest hair, and my Testies are about the size of a large grape.
now for the rest.
Like I said in my post. I've been the same length for the past 3 years, not a centimeter more. I'm 5 inches flat and about a inch and a half thick. I'm just worried that if I've grown to waht seems to a full male everywhere but what seems there, then I'm worried I'm done growing. and If it hasnt grown in the time I SHOULD have grown, it concerns me that the rest of my body is ahead of my penis, because by now I look and sound that of a 18-20 year old from what I've been told by about everyone I know.
I'm just worried I as a person have a growing man's body, but a not growing penis, like my body will steadily grow, but my penis will stay the length it is.
I need to know why it isn't It doesnt seem normal, and I feel like I should talk to my doctor.
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but what If I'M unsatisfied with it?
would it be a bad idea to talk to my doctor about enlargment therapy or something?
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We have one date here. It's 10 years ago, so by now Tristian knows how how the 16-21 growth (Make that 16-26 growth.) worked out. Five inches ain't bad, but getting it all before your 14th birthday, understandably, gave you high expectations that left you disappointed in not growing to some legendary penis size. You mentioned "sex partners" but made no indication that they were female. A woman who is realistic isn't going to be disappointed with a 5" penis. The guys you got "up close and personal" with were in the 10-20% (largest penises) range, so you shouldn't think of them as examples of average penis size. (A guy who isn't a jerk will say "Maybe it is a little small, but he can't do anything about it, so I'm not going to bring it up.") If you can't find a way to get into a locker room/shower environment where you see a lot of guys naked, you should look for "vintage nudist" online sites. The typical guy in one of those sites is at most 5".
About finding someone who will promise to give you a penis size more to your liking; DON'T! A few years after you fell for this quackery, you will be saying, "Why did I ever think handing my penis over to this guy, expecting him to make it bigger and more satisfying would be a good idea. Now it doesn't look right, and it doesn't work right either!"
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